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18 Aug 2020, 1:06 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
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Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


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18 Aug 2020, 1:17 pm

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... you Fnord, don't treat people well, and if that's not against the rules, it should be!
If not treating people well was a bannable offense according to The Rules, there would be only a few members left on this website.

Check your behavior before you check mine.
Believe what you wanna believe dude,you know the truth and you know your wrong :mrgreen:


Sometimes facts as they appear can feel quite brusk in their appearances .


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18 Aug 2020, 1:32 pm

Jakki wrote:
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... you Fnord, don't treat people well, and if that's not against the rules, it should be!
If not treating people well was a bannable offense according to The Rules, there would be only a few members left on this website.

Check your behavior before you check mine.
Believe what you wanna believe dude,you know the truth and you know your wrong :mrgreen:


Sometimes facts as they appear can feel quite brusk in their appearances .
Not quite sure what you are trying to say in relation to my words that you quoted.I was just saying Fnord knows he mistreats people and he knows it's wrong and is proud of it.Would that be a truth quite brusk in appearances :)


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18 Aug 2020, 1:35 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


:wink:


And there's me thinking you didn't understand the rules :wink:


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18 Aug 2020, 1:42 pm

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When you see such personal attacks of any kind, please send a PM to a mod with the link. We aren't omniscient or omnipresent. :lol:


I'd like advice on what to do after this step. I reported several instances of personal attacks and insults against other members across the forum but most notably in The Haven. I reported all of these incidents to the mod team by PM and also using the "report" button. With each report I included a clear quote of the offence as well as a copy of the rule which had been broken, and the harm that had been done to certain members' reputations / mental health.

I was thanked for the PM but have yet to see the posts edited or removed. As far as I know, the people who wrote the posts did not issue apologies. Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed. I do not see apologies. I did not receive any personal communication from the mod who closed those reports, although it's been a few weeks.

My next step would be to report the problems a third time, using the Mod Attention thread and / or messaging Alex directly.
I haven't done this because I don't want to draw additional attention to the posts via the Mod Attention thread, which is public. I would use that as a last resort as I prefer to keep issues private.

What should a member do when they see obvious rule breaks, they have followed your advice, sent PM to mods, and used the report button, all with documentary evidence, and yet the issues are not resolved?


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18 Aug 2020, 1:46 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
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Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed.


I can only guess at why this happened.

1. The case was closed in error.
2. The case was closed but action was not taken due to being sidetracked.
3. The case was closed and no action was taken as the moderator who dealt with the case saw no personal attack.

4. Case was closed cause while personal attack the mod shares same political bias as the rule breaker
5. Mod sees it as personal attack but leaves it up and does nothing(see above reason). This is like stopping a bank robber but letting them keep the moneys aNd go free.


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18 Aug 2020, 2:05 pm

sly279 wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed.


I can only guess at why this happened.

1. The case was closed in error.
2. The case was closed but action was not taken due to being sidetracked.
3. The case was closed and no action was taken as the moderator who dealt with the case saw no personal attack.

4. Case was closed cause while personal attack the mod shares same political bias as the rule breaker
5. Mod sees it as personal attack but leaves it up and does nothing(see above reason). This is like stopping a bank robber but letting them keep the moneys aNd go free.


I hope not Sly otherwise all mods are currant buns :jester:


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18 Aug 2020, 2:16 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


:wink:


And there's me thinking you didn't understand the rules :wink:


Insinuation is sometimes not easily identified in a post and well disguised, it's a tricky and problematic area. Sometimes it's more offensive than being directly attacked and slips through the net. More diligence needs to be implemented in sifting out the indirect and less obvious breaking of the rules by insinuation and circumventing the rules somehow. I think that the tone of the post should be monitored, if it is mocking, aggressive, dismissive or repeatedly targeting the same person, especially if the target is known to be vulnerable.


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18 Aug 2020, 2:20 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


:wink:


And there's me thinking you didn't understand the rules :wink:


Well you admitted in your post you were insulting the mods to get their attention.


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18 Aug 2020, 2:21 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


My turn:
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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


:wink:


And there's me thinking you didn't understand the rules :wink:


Well you admitted in your post you were insulting the mods to get their attention.


touche :jester:


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18 Aug 2020, 2:26 pm

Teach51 wrote:

Insinuation is sometimes not easily identified in a post and well disguised, it's a tricky and problematic area. Sometimes it's more offensive than being directly attacked and slips through the net. More diligence needs to be implemented in sifting out the indirect and less obvious breaking of the rules by insinuation and circumventing the rules somehow. I think that the tone of the post should be monitored, if it is mocking, aggressive, dismissive or repeatedly targeting the same person, especially if the target is known to be vulnerable.


I agree this happens and is one cause for concern. Many of the posts I reported were, however, direct, with clearly hostile and belittling or offensive language targeting specific individuals (or groups). The posters had been asked to stop several times but didn't. It doesn't matter if the recipient is "vulnerable" or not. Often when they are "vulnerable", they're called snowflakes or divas or told to grow thicker skin. Sometimes they are harassed and teased for making reports. Even when the person isn't "vulnerable", everyone on WP deserves the same level of respect and the standards should be enforced equally.


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18 Aug 2020, 2:36 pm

Teach51 wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


My turn:
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2. Personal attacks.

This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


:wink:


And there's me thinking you didn't understand the rules :wink:


Insinuation is sometimes not easily identified in a post and well disguised, it's a tricky and problematic area. Sometimes it's more offensive than being directly attacked and slips through the net. More diligence needs to be implemented in sifting out the indirect and less obvious breaking of the rules by insinuation and circumventing the rules somehow. I think that the tone of the post should be monitored, if it is mocking, aggressive, dismissive or repeatedly targeting the same person, especially if the target is known to be vulnerable.


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18 Aug 2020, 2:49 pm

Maybe not everyone picks up on the insinuation if it's very subtle. Yes, I am aware that this is an endemic problem. What if a mod can't match a rule or action to deal with the offense in such a case? Is this the problem?


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PLease tell me this fox is supposed to be clapping. Because the more I look, the less it looks like it...


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18 Aug 2020, 2:52 pm

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PLease tell me this fox is supposed to be clapping. Because the more I look, the less it looks like it...



Lol but he's happy. I see what you mean :D


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18 Aug 2020, 2:58 pm

Teach51 wrote:
Maybe not everyone picks up on the insinuation if it's very subtle. Yes, I am aware that this is an endemic problem. What if a mod can't match a rule or action to deal with the offense in such a case? Is this the problem?


I've done the matching. I've spent a considerable amount of time documenting this information to no avail.

If the problem is "both parties are at fault", then at the very least both parties should be warned and / or banned depending on the exchange. Unfortunately, I haven't seen that. The reports that I filed this summer, and sent by PM as requested, didn't result in any change for either party. Likewise I got no correspondence to request further information, clarification, or detail.

I'm rather tired of reporting the same issues. I would assume if I wait and report a third or fourth time when the new mods begin, I'll be told that the problems happened months ago and are no longer relevant.

It's sad because this thread is asking for suggestions and dialogue about how to help the morale of our membership. I've done all that I can do and the workload should not be mine. I'm not a moderator but I've spent a considerable amount of emotional and mental energy trying to support this site, as requested, so that tangible improvements can be made. It seems that I was wasting my time. There are now 900 posts to this thread but unfortunately some of the mods haven't even commented, or responded to the suggestions which have been made. I don't want the membership to quit but it can be very frustrating when we respond as requested, and don't feel heard.


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