18 Aug 2020, 8:40 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:40 pm
blooiejagwa wrote:
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
It’s all a big balancing act.
That it is.
kraftiekortie wrote:
I have a long way to go in being good at navigating people and how to get the best out of them.
I suggest a bigger whip.
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are times when I’ve been an abject failure....but this happens less frequently as I get older.
Don't put yourself down, KK.
*THAT* is *MY* job.
that girl put fake tan on her face but not her hands.. hands usually darken the first esp when driving...
chest also darkens less and slower -- this is one reason they say sunscreen is important there. because enough protection via melanin isn't happening and cancer can show up (also for ears)
This spoiler is only for blooiejagwa.
So, please don't read it.
18 Aug 2020, 8:41 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:43 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:43 pm
blooiejagwa wrote:
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Many times, “blunt honesty” is made use of in bullying. I don’t always trust it.
My hackles are up, and that doesn't happen often.
Use your intelligence and determine the intent of the "Blunt Honesty".
Control your emotional interference and focus on being rational.
*INTENT* is vital, and yet so many people are oblivious to this fact.
BTW,
Thanks for the bit of spice in our conversation.
I don't get that all too often.
i keep throwing side things for you to make fun of but you are remaining on topic.
impressive.
Not that impressive.
Look at my spoiler.
18 Aug 2020, 8:45 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:47 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:49 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:49 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I'm confused about the topic here. Are we still talking about how to help WP or is that passé?
According to blooiejagwa, I was doing a good job of being on topic, even if I had added the compulsory bit of humour.
To the general participants in this conversation:
The topic I am focusing on, at hand is:
Moderate your "Snowflakedness"!
Aspie's strength *IS* their honesty and political correctness *SHOULD* be second fiddle!
Hoowa!
But yes, it is a balancing act.
18 Aug 2020, 8:55 pm
18 Aug 2020, 8:56 pm
Wolfram87 wrote:
I, for one, would love a "how to be endearing"-manual written by Fnord.
It would be like asking a marsupial to perform brain surgery.
Wolfram87 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
I, for one, would like to see an end to the smarmy condescension exhibited by self-righteous people.
Not being condescending. I actually quite like your style.
So do I.
I *ALWAYS* have.
18 Aug 2020, 8:59 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
That’s my whole point, really. The Amiable Ones should wield their strength in numbers.
And get accused of counter bullying or snowflakedness
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18 Aug 2020, 9:00 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I wish some MORE would return. Show that they’re not intimidated by the schmucks in our midst.
The majority of the membership would take them over all the people whose only motivation is to bully and show off their superiority.
That’s my whole point, really. The Amiable Ones should wield their strength in numbers.
The majority of the membership would take them over all the people whose only motivation is to bully and show off their superiority.
That’s my whole point, really. The Amiable Ones should wield their strength in numbers.
That sounds great, but sadly they aren't necessarily allowed to return.
That's my whole point, really, too.
18 Aug 2020, 9:02 pm
Teach51 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
I, for one, would love a "how to be endearing"-manual written by Fnord.
I do have a copy of his last book, but I can't remember if it went down well or not so I better not post it.Fnord is a smart cookie. An articulate, precise, coherent cookie. Please note and applaud my Oxford Comma thingy.
Yes, he is a smart "cookie".
But I am as smart as *HE* thinks he is, and that makes me, well, you know.
18 Aug 2020, 9:03 pm
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
That’s my whole point, really. The Amiable Ones should wield their strength in numbers.
And get accused of counter bullying or snowflakedness
... Or being overly sensitive divas, snitches, people with inferior skin thickness, and privilege.
18 Aug 2020, 9:09 pm
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
That’s my whole point, really. The Amiable Ones should wield their strength in numbers.
And get accused of counter bullying or snowflakedness
There needs to be a balance.
There is usually a male/female thingie happening.
There needs to be a balance in between.
Neither side should dominate, imo.
"Reason" should trump emotionalism.
Erm, Excuse the "trump" word.
Who would have thought a politician would make a word unfashionable?
