Aitra, the ads we're getting often strike me as inappropriate for the same reasons they bother you. They do not appear to be consistent with the mission and position of this site, even though they come about by linking key words. I don't think anyone associated with the site as control over the ads or veto power, however, and we do need ads to exist. It might be a good thing to look into, as to if there is any way to GET veto power.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).