sinsboldly wrote:
The other day I looked at those ads and thought "if this was a post, I would edit it and PM them about " *behavior intended to provoke or belittle other members, and *anything that causes conflict with another member" rule.
Yes, exactly.
eg. I am not fat, but I have been finding the constant ads for losing weight, with revolting wodges of belly fat and inflating bodies and so on rather ugly, disgusting, offputting, visually very unattractive, and also "worrying" because I know how sensitive I have been, still am, to body image pressures, and should think many others on here are too, who are younger and more vulnerable. I think that ads like these make WP into a rather hostile and unpleasant and anxiety-inducing place to be.
The ads seem to pick up on one set of classic aspie and autie insecurities after another. As ManErg says the ones about being unpopular, others which use the word loser, others which talk about wasting your life being depressed, others about women from Thailand or the middle east, etc. This is serious environmental hostility.
The ads are "aimed" at us. They almost look as if Alex had "sold" us, this "market", to ad companies by telling them what most bothers us, worries us, etc. I don't believe that he did; I know that the ads are picking up on keywords in threads etc, but in fact that is what is so horrible, almost frightening, about them; they are a hideous mirror of the population here. ( like the mirror in "The Snow Queen" which made the short shorter, and the fat fatter, etc ).
I think Alex needs to look at this, unless he/anyone thinks that this kind of "reflection" is likely to be salutory/good for us.
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