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22 Apr 2011, 6:14 pm

honestly just end my pain already, i realize now that i'm not welcome nor tolerated anymore due to the amount of jerks that lurk here now.

and i need my account banned\deleted\blocked something cause i can't walk away from a site as long as i have an account that i feel i must maintain.

i will not apoligize for anything mean i ever said since i joined, i'm ditching this place with my diginty intack which means i will not be humbled.

so just end my pain so can start forgetting this place as fast as possible. poor xemmy and harkness will have to work long hours to get rid of the trash but i'll make it up to them.

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22 Apr 2011, 9:57 pm

I will ban your account right now.

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22 Apr 2011, 11:39 pm

Jetfox wrote:

You'll be back.

(They always come back!)

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25 Apr 2011, 7:47 am

Awwwww.

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25 Apr 2011, 8:22 pm

Same here. I'm being bullied and I'm not welcome here. Just the same as any other playground I've ever been on.

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25 Apr 2011, 8:23 pm

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

Same here. I'm being bullied and I'm not welcome here. Just the same as any other playground I've ever been on.

Can I ask you to take a 24 hour break and then post here again if you still feel this way?

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25 Apr 2011, 8:26 pm

OK, I'll give it 24 hours, but please know that the person who bullied me went back and edited his offending post AFTER I reported it, to make me look hypersensitive.

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25 Apr 2011, 8:28 pm

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

OK, I'll give it 24 hours, but please know that the person who bullied me went back and edited his offending post AFTER I reported it, to make me look hypersensitive.

I saw the original. Thanks for giving it a cooling off period.

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25 Apr 2011, 8:45 pm

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

OK, I'll give it 24 hours, but please know that the person who bullied me went back and edited his offending post AFTER I reported it, to make me look hypersensitive.

I didn't edit it to make you look hypersensitive but because I felt I needed to add more stuff. I began editing my post before yours appeared and I bet the forum software is advanced enough that it keeps a history of posts so it wouldn't have been a great plan, besides I stand by my claim that saying "you are wrong" is not wrong nor a personal attack, I would have gained nothing trying to hide that I said that, and in fact I didn't, because I left the "you are wrong" part anyway.

I disagree a lot that you were bullied by me telling you that you are wrong. I even consider it is probably not right for you to misuse that word in this site where many of us have been true victims of bullying.

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25 Apr 2011, 8:52 pm

Vexcalibur wrote:

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

OK, I'll give it 24 hours, but please know that the person who bullied me went back and edited his offending post AFTER I reported it, to make me look hypersensitive.

Walk away Vexcalibur. This isn't a thread for arguing about this poster's desire to delete his or her account.

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25 Apr 2011, 9:01 pm

I just felt I needed to clarify the reasons I edited my post. I do not need people to go around claiming things about me that I are not true. I didn't edit my post to make him/her look hypersensitive. And I was not bullying him/her. I really need that if (s)he wants to decide to walk away to the forum, accurate reasons based on the reality of the events that happened would be needed. None of my actions came from the intention of me wanting this user to leave, as I gain nothing with that.

So before a decision to leave a site is taken, it is probably important to know if the assumptions from which the decision is coming were true. In my opinion they weren't.

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26 Apr 2011, 6:49 pm

I am still feeling a bit intimidated and unsafe, so I may give it another 24 hours. (There, see, I made that statement about me, and my own feelings, not about somebody else.) For the record, the other party in the conflict has made amends, and I have accepted, so there is no need to demonize that person. However, I am not sure my own reason for feeling unsafe is understood. As I see it, any time a person KNOWS what will get under somebody else's skin, and then does it *for that reason,* it is a form of bullying. Oh, yes, I am quite aware of more severe forms, as I have suffered everything from mocking to physical assault and sexual harassment by my peers. But "yanking somebody's chain" falls under that umbrella too.

And I do notice that the other party involved is continuing the conflict via the wording in his custom rank. Hence, despite the (appreciated) gesture of goodwill, I am still not quite safe.

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29 Apr 2011, 4:00 am

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

It concerns me that two days have passed and no member of staff has yet addressed my continuing insecurity. Which doesn't help.

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29 Apr 2011, 4:47 am

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

It concerns me that two days have passed and no member of staff has yet addressed my continuing insecurity. Which doesn't help.

Sorry you are feeling insecure. You're not in any kind of real danger.

A lot of people don't know how to phrase their opinions in ways that aren't personal or offensive, or just plain aggressive. Do remember that the vast majority of people on the site are autistic.

I would stay out of PPR if you are prone to sensitivity. As much as I'd like to institute a more friendly culture there, I don't think it's going to happen any time soon.

I spoke to Vexcaliber, so maybe he'll change his title. Though it's not against the rules, so we can't force it.

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29 Apr 2011, 6:37 am

Moog wrote:

LovebirdsFlying wrote:

It concerns me that two days have passed and no member of staff has yet addressed my continuing insecurity. Which doesn't help.

Thank you, sir. It isn't Vex's fault, it's just that when I happen to see the custom rank, it keeps the conflict going in my mind. I'd rather see it put completely to rest.

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