I got drafted after I showed infinite patience with someone trying to drag the parenting board into a flame war ... Maybe I should have been a little less reasonable, eh?
There isn't really a single qualification. Someone says, "we need more moderators." Someone notices you seem to stay within the rules and keep your cool in difficult situations and, so, nominates you. Alex is around, raises no objections, and completes the task.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).