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24 Apr 2007, 3:45 pm

I see sexual threads being posted and I saw the spanking thread so I started my own and it got locked. I have also been told to keep my fetish to myself a couple of times and do it on a fetish forum and they don't tell others to keep it to themselves either and they certinally don't tell others to keep their own other fetishes to themselves.

What do peope have against me on here?



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24 Apr 2007, 3:48 pm

Sexual fetishes and things of that nature are best kept to specific boards. WrongPlanet isn't the place for discussing those sorts of subjects, it's an Aspie support forum.



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24 Apr 2007, 4:10 pm

I don't really see spanking as a sexual thing or a fetish, to be honest, as it can also be a way of showing displeasure at someone... I see diaper wearing as far more of a fetish and less commonplace. Having said that, no idea who locked it. Was not me.



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24 Apr 2007, 5:47 pm

Frankly, I rather agree with likedcalico's position here.
Some of us have had relatively non-normal sexual
lives, and might find some support from other aspies
who do as well. It might be good to have a single sexual
fetish thread, so that the adult section doesn't just end up
overwhelmed with many fragmented threads, as the general
section has with it's "Do you do this too?" threads. I doubt that
there are large numbers of any particular fetish here.



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24 Apr 2007, 6:01 pm

....and, while I don't think that anyone should make the mistake of thinking that they can meet others with their similar fetishes on WP, I don't want to set a precedent of locking fetish threads because they may offend me. I think that a precedent like that could discourage people from having well-intentioned discussions about AS and sex - including sexual encouters that involve their fetish.



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24 Apr 2007, 7:46 pm

I was very upset when the urine drinking thread was removed.
This is a belief that is held by a decent quantity of people, and
was actually possible of developing into a more enlightened discussion
than most of what I see.



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24 Apr 2007, 9:18 pm

I did not lock the thread and have nothing against you or people wanting to post such threads in the adult forum :)



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24 Apr 2007, 10:48 pm

Yeah, I had a problem with that thread being locked too.

I'd like to just add one qualification to my original reply - I'm tolerant of lots of things in the adult forum (e.g. drugs, prostituton, fetishes, etc.). However, if someone were to start a thread about pedophilia or animals, I'd lock and remove it.



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24 Apr 2007, 10:55 pm

I assume we're talking about the game thread,
Frankly, I don't feel either of the games really
belonged there. There are plenty of non-adult
forum games for those of childish bent to play.

The Spanking one was initially put in the adult
forum because it was getting 'naughty', but my
got would have gone with just locking/throwing
it into the dustbin. It struck me as starting off
on very dangerous ground (spanking a flamer),
and only began to get reasonable later.

But, the precedent of a game like that in one
of the forums which is not reserved for such
silliness seems to have been a bad one.