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12 Jan 2009, 3:41 am

Why was it deleted? Now I don't have anything to go on. I'm hoping them member isn't deleted also before I had the chance to get a reply from the admin.



12 Jan 2009, 4:03 am

Where was it posted at?



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12 Jan 2009, 7:09 am

I saw that thread -- some user named "HaleLocke" or something close?

I once saw a screen capture someone took of a harassing thread -- they knew the harraser was going to delete it before it could be reported



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12 Jan 2009, 6:56 pm

Was it really deleted. That's just to bad as I had made one of my most philosophical posts there. It actually made me appear to be almost human and fairly smart. I think I'm going to call my agent.


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24 Feb 2009, 8:08 pm

The person is PMing me again... man, Alex can you at least allow me to be able to block him/her?

I get an apology then another abusive message.

I don't knw why this person thinks I "have it easy", I have very severe OCD plus several more hundred problems.



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24 Feb 2009, 9:50 pm

It's a mystery to me why anyone would troll or harangue you hale_bopp.

Spurned any romantic cyber-advances lately? You're certainly visually attractive and some people (or cyber-stalkers if you prefer) do not cope well when attractive females do not drop their cyber-pants at the first hint of cyber (stalking) interest.

Anyway, you should not have to put up with crap in your PM box, so I hope this gets sorted for you soon.



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25 Feb 2009, 12:30 am

The person is female.



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25 Feb 2009, 1:13 am

Hale_Bopp,

We rarely delete anything, and the thread mentioned is in our little dungeon where we keep threads we whisk away. But we received no mention of your distress to the moderators. If you are receiving unwanted PMs please PM me and tell me from whom and what the contents are, and I will take care of it, straightaway!

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25 Feb 2009, 3:39 pm

Why was this thread started?

This is useless, as you all are just mad because I am telling it like it is.

I go through OCD too, and that is trivial compared to anything I went through.

Those of you who have it good have nothing better to complain about than somebody sending pms....how pathetic!! ! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:



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25 Feb 2009, 3:45 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
The person is PMing me again... man, Alex can you at least allow me to be able to block him/her?

I get an apology then another abusive message.

I don't knw why this person thinks I "have it easy", I have very severe OCD plus several more hundred problems.


how is that abusive? :?: , what i went through was abusive! :!:

you all don't know what abuse is, you have no earthly idea!



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25 Feb 2009, 6:42 pm

HaleLocke,
do know Hale_Bopp offline/seeing what reality is like for her on daily basis,or is it that are judging a whole life experience on online comments? comments are only a tiny window into what daily life is like for someone,it isn't something that can be just judged online,it has to be seen and heard to really understand.

Also,would it really matter if Hale_Bopp has or hasn't more severe OCD than self,that won't affect anyone else-someone having a more severe form does not make someone elses experience less difficult or important,and will always find someone who is better or worse off,take more notice of own disability/impairment and how can deal with them rather than comparing with someone else.


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25 Feb 2009, 7:17 pm

KingdomOfRats wrote:
HaleLocke,
do know Hale_Bopp offline/seeing what reality is like for her on daily basis,or is it that are judging a whole life experience on online comments? comments are only a tiny window into what daily life is like for someone,it isn't something that can be just judged online,it has to be seen and heard to really understand.

Also,would it really matter if Hale_Bopp has or hasn't more severe OCD than self,that won't affect anyone else-someone having a more severe form does not make someone elses experience less difficult or important,and will always find someone who is better or worse off,take more notice of own disability/impairment and how can deal with them rather than comparing with someone else.


I guess I am judgemental, maybe I shouldn't be. Its just that its inevitable for me to feel that I am always the one who suffers, I can't help it, its something I always did since I was a young child. I need to discuss this thread with my therapist.
Logically, your right, maybe I can't know the whole story through internet posts, just that nobody on here posts about what I post about so I assume that it never happened to them.



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25 Feb 2009, 7:19 pm

On that note, I won't send anymore messages like that if it offends you hale_bopp.



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26 Feb 2009, 12:07 am

It is very very uncool to create a name very similar to another user, steal their avatar, and post hateful, rude, or mean messages.



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26 Feb 2009, 1:06 am

ShadesOfMe wrote:
It is very very uncool to create a name very similar to another user, steal their avatar, and post hateful, rude, or mean messages.


It's also very uncool to act like you don't know what the problem is when confronted...

Based on nothing more than what I see in this thread, I propose a permanent ban for HaleLocke because his/her presence here is obviously and transparently for no purpose other than to antagonise hale_bopp...

I'm usually against banning people permanently, but i think this case warrants it.



26 Feb 2009, 2:09 am

I think it's Princess_1989.