Does anyone else HATE socialising as much I do?

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Most of the time I do not like them. to me a party is playing videogamesand eating pizza with people I know well. This also I think comes from not having much of interest in socializing with others any way as well though.

I don't really like socializing, unless it's with other intellectuals/artists/musicians. Usually I only socialize with people I've become acquainted with. It still leaves me exhausted in the end though. Hate is such a strong word. I really don't feel any joy nor hatred when I socialize; I feel nothing for the most part. Only thing I get is some mental note that "everything is in order."

I only go out and socialize because something in me is telling me that it's necessary if I want to find an eventual mate.

Even so, the only way I've figured out how I'm going to learn social skills, is treating it as if it were some scientific study - that is, testing out methods, body language, ways of speech, etc, then analyzing people's reactions to what I did. Then with those results I can determine what I'm good and what areas need more improvement.

I. hate. socializing. period, the end, good bye.

i was forced into going to my senior ball & junior prom, i'm being forced to have a grad party this year and i am totally dreading college this fall

I hate socialising with people I don't know. I went to a wedding a few weeks ago where the only two people I knew were the bride and the groom.

I do like to socialize but only with certain people, I don't like loud obnoxious people, and tend to avoid them.

I hate socializing. It sucks that in order to be an adult in society, one is expected to socialize and make lots of friends . . . but I just can't manage that. :| I'm sure I'm fated to be be a loner forever. I guess I'm missing out on the joy that others feel when they're around people, but I lack the capacity to feel that.

I'm alright with it most of the time, but there can be times when after I've been out I just want to spend a fews days by myself in peace & sort myself out mentally.

You're on a site for people with ASDs - yes, plenty of us hate socialising too.

not me...i love socializing..except when it is socializing about negative stuff.... i love my youth church group...they are so nice...and every holiday we always do something fun... and reminds me of words of god...by the way... i am a universal person in religion...so anything suit me...except scientology...too much science makes me puke....well those kind of science...lol..

anyway... yes i don;t have much friends at school too...i only have friends outside school...and isn't this website a social gathering as well...lol...in a way...

Same Here - I HATE social events - they are stressful and a large number of people freak me out.

I remember I went into an overcrowded subway wagon and vomited :-S

I hate a large amount of people :-S

I do not mind socializing one bit since make me a better person to know. Plus new friendships and possible relationships are made through my socializing at Mason.

I usually cant stand it unless its around people I am comfortable,especially if its a family gathering of my dads side of the family the all really fun while besides my mom and her father her side of the family are boring and annoying.

I like socializing with people if the conversation is a discussion or an exchange of information about each other.

I hate trying to talk to people who joke and banter coz most of the time I have no idea what they're talking about and what's so funny. I feel very left out in this form of interaction...