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02 Jun 2018, 11:04 am

...Perhaps I should detail the, aside from the SUNY and UWGB attempts I've already detailed, third disastrous full-out attempt to go back to college " filling out the application ALL BY MYSELF " in the 29th, and some lesser illustration of my problem - but I don't't feel like feeling further frustrated and banging my head into the wall just now :( .


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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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02 Jun 2018, 5:52 pm

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...Those among you who want me to not go to university might end up being satisfied after all - Maybe I'm no longer in strong enough health to think of going and never will be, plus maybe I never will get that crucial. non-financial- helping hand :cry: Maybe those people screaming " YOU HAVE TO DO IT ALL ALONE! I DID IT! " -lying. will be happy then. Likewise, those of you who want pushed into - not locked into - a board and care place or similar will get your wish, maybe I'll have no alternative - Won't you be happy then? :evil: He said, spitefully:twisted:. Maybe I'll just some more tears in my eyes -blind or no :( . thinking about what could have been. I think about it - and cry - now :cry: .


Help is available.

Financial aid councilors and academic councilors are but a phone call away, but you actually have to pick up the phone and contact them. In a few weeks, I'll be going back to school, and I'll be enlisting the help of an academic advisor to plan my schedule.

No one expects you to do it completely "alone," but you have to be willing to at least put in SOME work.


I think what he doesnt get is that nobody HERE can help him in any real way. Why he ever expected otherwise is quite beyond me.


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02 Jun 2018, 7:47 pm

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...Perhaps I should detail the, aside from the SUNY and UWGB attempts I've already detailed, third disastrous full-out attempt to go back to college " filling out the application ALL BY MYSELF " in the 29th, and some lesser illustration of my problem - but I don't't feel like feeling further frustrated and banging my head into the wall just now :( .



How about something more proactive like detailing exactly what kind of help you need.

New York State Education Department: 518-474-3852.

US Department of Education: 1-800-872-5327.

State: New York

County: Westchester

Name of student: ?

Name of high school: ?

Year of graduation: 1978



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02 Jun 2018, 10:42 pm

..Well, thanj you Ezra. I'll see if that could be of help :) .


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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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03 Jun 2018, 12:29 am

What about at least giving the name of the high school?

People can't help if they don't have the pertinent information required.

What exactly are you asking for? To verify your transcripts exist? To have them sent somewhere? What?

Have you tried (recently) or will you try calling the phone numbers I provided?



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03 Jun 2018, 8:44 am

...Ezra, again, I thank you. However, what am I supposed to do with the numbers you sent me? Will they get me colors of my HS records and a certification that I graduated? That is what I'd like - as I said, the " normal " way of " get an application together and send it in and your HS will reliably send in your info to where you've applied, yes-siree-bob! " just has not worked in the past for me! :cry: :( This has to be fixed, I have to know that an application will be reasonably responded too, before Zi do anything, considering all the times it has ducked up in the past :cry: . People ignore this.
People who are full adult-aged, over 21, claim that they cannot make a few phone calls or write some letters on my behalf - Or, anyway, they WON'T :( - and suggest this super-insne " go take a GED course ' route, when GEDs are not designed for people who want a 2nd try at HD, they are for people who dropped out of HS, and that does't apply to me! However, people who don't't have the disastrous, emotionally scarring past :cry: that I have with records people and have more and better phones and computers to communicate with won't try to help me :( . Okay.









S"]What about at least giving the name of the high school?

People can't help if they don't have the pertinent information required.

What exactly are you asking for? To verify your transcripts exist? To have them sent somewhere? What?

Have you tried (recently) or will you try calling the phone numbers I provided?[/quote]


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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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03 Jun 2018, 8:59 am

...Ezra, I am. however, unsure what you feel I shod do with those numbers, etc. Are you saying that if I call them, they will give me my records-etc.? Really? For sure? As I menti5, someone else recently said they'd get me anaddress to which I could write and I would get back the records-etc. However, this person has lagged on getting back to me and following that up :( .
It is the weekend and I cannot at this time follow up on those phone numbers anyway. I do not give my real name here - You have given what I assume is your real last initial here in the past.


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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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03 Jun 2018, 9:12 am

Heres what I would do: Get your GED. Just tell them you never finished High School. What will they do, LOOK UP YOUR RECORDS and know you are lying? Preparation for it, if you need it, will get you into the swing of all that reading and studying anyway. Then simply apply to college with the GED. Its so simple its perfect.


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03 Jun 2018, 9:43 am

..No, it's stupid. Don't't you realize, by the way, that I might be, by practicing this deception, taking away a spit in a GED class from someone who needs -and wants- a HS diploma, as S-he never got one the first time around? And why am I supposed to deny my past, like someone who hides his identity in the Witness Protection Program? My past is what I've got - I.should wipe some of it away? I don't't think a GED class would be happy at all if they found out I'd lied to them - and my particular combination of first-middle-last name is fairly distinctive, I have thought that there may be no one else in North America, if not the world, with my particular combination. And should I lie about my age, too :P ? Come ON!! !! ! :x And I'd have to give my SS number to go - I'm sure that would lead them to my school past. Or do I make like some illegal immigrants and steal someone else's SS number? Come f*****g ON!! !! ! :twisted: Just because YOU have this absurd fear, apparently, if taking the simple step of straightening out old records. that is not a reason for me to strap on that complex :roll: :roll:







.owUnion"]Heres what I would do: Get your GED. Just tell them you never finished High School. What will they do, LOOK UP YOUR RECORDS and know you are lying? Preparation for it, if you need it, will get you into the swing of all that reading and studying anyway. Then simply apply to college with the GED. Its so simple its perfect.[/quote]


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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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03 Jun 2018, 9:50 am

That's absurd. Millions of people take this test, you wouldn't be taking anything from anyone, esp because for whatever reason you effectively don't have a HS diploma!

I think you just don't want the inconvience and hassle of actually taking this test.







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03 Jun 2018, 10:07 am

Also from what you say of your past, why wouldn't you want to wipe that away? And how would the GED people discover your past? They are low paid state workers, I promise you they don't care one way or another.

And if the steps of getting your old records are so simple, why cant you do it yourself? Why ask autistic people you don't even properly know to get them? That's NUTS.


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03 Jun 2018, 10:20 am

...You are pounding sway at this absurd " the Earth is TOO flat, it IS!! !! !! !! ! " argument.because you, in fact, have this superstitious fear of trying to straighten out old records - And you Havent even -I assume- experienced what I've experienced with record-keepers!! !! !! !! ! All these people would have to do to find out my HS past is enter my SS number. If you think that a fake GED is so great, why don't't you do it your own freaking self? Sheesh :| .
I have a GS diploma already. I just want back up of what I already have. And I took the HS texts already, once is enough for me.



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03 Jun 2018, 10:27 am

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...You are pounding sway at this absurd " the Earth is TOO flat, it IS!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! " argument.because you, in fact, have this superstitious fear of trying to straighten out old records - And you Havent even -I assume- experienced what I've experienced with record-keepers!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! All these people would have to do to find out my HS past is enter my SS number. If you think that a fake GED is so great, why don't't you do it your own freaking self? Sheesh :| .
I have a GS diploma already. I just want back up of what I already have. And I took the HS texts already, once is enough for me.


It wouldn't be a "fake" GED. I don't need one. I have a BS in Geology. Sometimes I toy with the idea of going back either to get a BS in Biology (a subject I love almost as much) or a MS in Geology, but why bother? I don't need either for work and I can study both subjects at my leisure when not working.


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03 Jun 2018, 10:49 am

And it is what I thought: you just don't want to take the test. That's what it boils down to.

Well hey, this is an option, and probably the only one that might work for you. Nobody here is going to track down your old records. The last time you asked for that, from what I saw, it turned into one giant mess of a thread that was eventually locked, and nobody, not even the people who like and care about you, did this for you.


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03 Jun 2018, 11:00 am

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...Ezra, again, I thank you. However, what am I supposed to do with the numbers you sent me?


They're general information numbers. You would call them to get general information about how to get your official high school transcripts so that you can send them to whatever college you apply to.

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Will they get me colors of my HS records and a certification that I graduated? That is what I'd like - as I said, the " normal " way of " get an application together and send it in and your HS will reliably send in your info to where you've applied, yes-siree-bob! " just has not worked in the past for me! :cry: :( This has to be fixed, I have to know that an application will be reasonably responded too, before Zi do anything, considering all the times it has ducked up in the past :cry: . People ignore this.


I'm not ignoring it. That's why I'm suggesting that you call the board of education, rather than the high school.

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People who are full adult-aged, over 21, claim that they cannot make a few phone calls or write some letters on my behalf - Or, anyway, they WON'T :( - and suggest this super-insne " go take a GED course ' route, when GEDs are not designed for people who want a 2nd try at HD, they are for people who dropped out of HS, and that does't apply to me! However, people who don't't have the disastrous, emotionally scarring past :cry: that I have with records people and have more and better phones and computers to communicate with won't try to help me :( .


I think what people are saying is that they don't send someone's personal records to other people. Like they wouldn't send me my cousin's transcrips even though I know all his info.



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03 Jun 2018, 11:08 am

The way getting a GED works is, you get a booklet with practice tests and answers in it. You take the practice tests at home and then check the answer sheet to see how well you did. If you did well enough, then you go take like an hour test where you just mark abcd questions. The test is just to see if someone has a high school equivalency of knowledge. It's not any harder and probably less hard than tests one has to take as a college student, especially finals.

Basically if someone can't pass a GED test, they would just end up flunking out of college anyways.