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kraftiekortie
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05 May 2018, 8:55 am

Forget the past.

Go into an admissions office. Or make an appointment via phone. Ask the security guard where the admissions office is.

Tell the admissions person your concerns. They are better about things than in the old days. Don’t get upset if you don’t understand at first. Ask the admissions person to explain. Your goal is to apply for college.

Do the same things you did at SFCC.

You might be able to fill out the FAFSA the same day.

Above all, have patience. Save the irritation for after your meeting. Rant all you want on WP, not at the admissions person. Even if you think they’re part of some “complex” or other.



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05 May 2018, 9:22 am

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...I just Don't understand this apparent obsession by some with the idea that a would.be student can, absolutely cold, with no help whatsoever, fill in a form. Paper or cyber, and they will get in. with no consulting anyone whatsoever :cry:


What you do, is what I am going to have to do. You consult people at the college whose job it is to be consulted. Who else would you consult about the college you are going to, than the college consultant anyways? They are the ones who know the answers to how that college form is supposed to be filled out. Joe Blow on Wrong Planet is not going to know jackshit about it.

I am a very slow learner. It might take me a couple of weeks or more and many failed attempts before I get it right. That's always been my pattern. But what I know for sure is that, no one on Wrong Planet is going to be able to help me out with it. College staff, yes. The college website FAQ, yes. Instructional videos on Youtube, yes. Wrong Planet, no.



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05 May 2018, 9:40 am

It won’t be that hard, Ezra.

It’s mostly your personal info and your high school info.

They’ll probably ask permission to get your high school transcripts.

You might have to write an essay telling why you want to attend college/that particular college......but maybe not.

You have to get financial info from your parents when you fill out the FAFSA. They probably should fill it out for you, in fact, because their financial info might be private.

Also, make sure your vaccinations are up to date.



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05 May 2018, 9:42 am

You have to know your Social Security Number, Ezra.



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05 May 2018, 10:00 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
It won’t be that hard, Ezra.

It’s mostly your personal info and your high school info.

They’ll probably ask permission to get your high school transcripts.

You might have to write an essay telling why you want to attend college/that particular college......but maybe not.

You have to get financial info from your parents when you fill out the FAFSA. They probably should fill it out for you, in fact, because their financial info might be private.

Also, make sure your vaccinations are up to date.



I'm not expecting many problems. But I'm prepared to accept problems all the same. If I have to crumple up 50 applications or whatever else, before I get it right, so be it.

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You have to know your Social Security Number, Ezra.


I'm not dumb, it's 905-80-5406



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05 May 2018, 10:08 am

I think it’s because ASS-P has anxiety about college applications, and bad experiences with college people.....much more than an actual inability to fill out the application.

Truthfully, I believe any literate person can fill out a college application. ASS-P is a literate man. He probably needs emotional support.

At the library, ask one of the staff to walk you through how to get on the website of the college, and their online applications. Once you get there, fill it out typing, then ask one of the staff how to submit it.



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05 May 2018, 10:12 am

Remove that number immediately, if it’s your SS number.

Never post it on the Internet among strangers.



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05 May 2018, 10:16 am

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Remove that number immediately, if it’s your SS number.

Never post it on the Internet among strangers.


No it's not hehe. It's agent J's.



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05 May 2018, 10:22 am

I should have known.......



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05 May 2018, 2:40 pm

...Ezra, " consulting someone " is hardly the " doing it all alone " that I get ordered I must do. Apparently you're allowed to do that but I'm not :(. Some people here tell me You! Cannot! Ask! For! Any! Help! and announce I Did It All Alone - they're LYING :cry: :evil: .
This post is general, Ezra, it is not all aimed at you. I put multiple things in one post.
I Don't, as I said, think I will get help on this on WP - For one, the people screaming that I was The Evil Bastard Of The Century for asking for help, yes, after I had been spit in the face by the C-IC, rather drowned everyone out :( . I really did make attempts to get in, and they were, in fact, by myself - or close to it. Maybe if I got that down somebody would believe me and conclude I deserve some sympathy - and help :( . I have thought of having a tattoo of a tear/s coming down my face but apparently that's symbolic of having killed somebody.
Again, Ezra, maybe you're allowed to ask somebody. According to people on WP I' m not :( .
I think I came up with logical reasons for wanting to live on campus.
Yes, I think I would like people around me where it's alright to read! :x That is, if I'm up to it anymore :cry: .
If I can't go to university maybe I will just let all ideas of greater education sail away into the land of " never " :cry: .
I list two?? drafts of this :cry: .
Even if going to u I happens - and people here think I shouldn't do it :( - I Don't think it will ever be as good as it cold have been. I'm old and crippled now.
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:










te="ASS-P"]...I just Don't understand this apparent obsession by some with the idea that a would.be student can, absolutely cold, with no help whatsoever, fill in a form. Paper or cyber, and they will get in. with no consulting anyone whatsoever :cry:[/quote]

What you do, is what I am going to have to do. You consult people at the college whose job it is to be consulted. Who else would you consult about the college you are going to, than the college consultant anyways? They are the ones who know the answers to how that college form is supposed to be filled out. Joe Blow on Wrong Planet is not going to know jackshit about it.

I am a very slow learner. It might take me a couple of weeks or more and many failed attempts before I get it right. That's always been my pattern. But what I know for sure is that, no one on Wrong Planet is going to be able to help me out with it. College staff, yes. The college website FAQ, yes. Instructional videos on Youtube, yes. Wrong Planet, no.[/quote]


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05 May 2018, 4:41 pm

[EDIT: Sorry for posting. I want to help, but I suck at it, and will go away now.]



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05 May 2018, 7:23 pm

ASS-P wrote:
...Ezra, " consulting someone " is hardly the " doing it all alone " that I get ordered I must do. Apparently you're allowed to do that but I'm not :(. Some people here tell me You! Cannot! Ask! For! Any! Help! and announce I Did It All Alone - they're LYING :cry: :evil: .
This post is general, Ezra, it is not all aimed at you. I put multiple things in one post.
I Don't, as I said, think I will get help on this on WP - For one, the people screaming that I was The Evil Bastard Of The Century for asking for help, yes, after I had been spit in the face by the C-IC, rather drowned everyone out :( . I really did make attempts to get in, and they were, in fact, by myself - or close to it. Maybe if I got that down somebody would believe me and conclude I deserve some sympathy - and help :( . I have thought of having a tattoo of a tear/s coming down my face but apparently that's symbolic of having killed somebody.
Again, Ezra, maybe you're allowed to ask somebody. According to people on WP I' m not :( .
I think I came up with logical reasons for wanting to live on campus.
Yes, I think I would like people around me where it's alright to read! :x That is, if I'm up to it anymore :cry: .
If I can't go to university maybe I will just let all ideas of greater education sail away into the land of " never " :cry: .
I list two?? drafts of this :cry: .
Even if going to u I happens - and people here think I shouldn't do it :( - I Don't think it will ever be as good as it cold have been. I'm old and crippled now.
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:


When people say they did it on their own, it means they didn't have someone doing it for them.

In grade school my parents did all the registering for me. I did absolutely nothing except show up for my first day of school.

When I register for college I will be doing the registering this time, not my parents.

That's the difference. That's what doing it on my own means.

My asking questions about what to do, does not mean someone is doing it for me. I am still doing it by myself.

What people on WP think you are asking for, is for someone here to act like your mommy and do everything for you.

This section is all about asking questions and getting advice for college.

But it is not about getting someone on WP to become your personal guardian/caregiver and do everything for you, which is what you have kept making it sound like you have been :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: crying for.

NO ONE SAID YOU CAN'T ASK QUESTIONS.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ASK QUESTIONS.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO GET ADVICE.

When my dad works on the car by himself he asks questions about what to do, what tools he needs etc, he watches videos on how to do it - but he is still doing it by himself - instead of having a mechanic at a garage do it for him.

Dad working on his car by himself = asking questions on what to do.

Dad not working on his car by himself = having a mechanic do everything for him.



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05 May 2018, 7:55 pm

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For one, the people screaming that I was The Evil Bastard Of The Century for asking for help


That's because you were trying to get some autistic person on WP to do stuff for you - to act as your personal caregiver.

To drive or fly down to Santa Cruz and sit next to you giving you computer lessons.

To drive you places.

To store your stuff for you.

To literally be there in the flesh holding your hand while you applied for college.

That's not getting help by asking questions.

That's trying to get some disabled autistic person on WP to be your butler.

That's what people here didn't like.

You were not just asking questions.

You were soliciting - you were panhandling.



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05 May 2018, 8:08 pm

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For one, the people screaming that I was The Evil Bastard Of The Century for asking for help


That's because when people here do help you by giving you advice, you spit in their face by telling them their advice is stupid and call them an idiot.



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05 May 2018, 9:56 pm

I confess: I pay a mechanic to fix my car.

I think ASS-P, with maybe some guidance from a social worker, could easily apply to college.

He can go to an advisor to register for classes. He would have to have a least a meeting with an advisor in order to register. Then he can register online. Once he does it the first time, it’ll be easier for him to do it afterwards.



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05 May 2018, 10:14 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I confess: I pay a mechanic to fix my car.

I think ASS-P, with maybe some guidance from a social worker, could easily apply to college.

He can go to an advisor to register for classes. He would have to have a least a meeting with an advisor in order to register. Then he can register online. Once he does it the first time, it’ll be easier for him to do it afterwards.


That's what I'm going to do. That's what everyone does. That's the only way to get it done.