Suitemate + Cleaning dorm

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I have issues with my suitmate (though I don't talk to her about it b/c I don't have a clue how to approach this) b/c I usually have to do the cleaning & she keeps getting sick (not her fault at all). Short story is she has a weak immune system & is allergic to cleaning supplies, so I get all the fun jobs like the trash cans (which I have to bag b/c she never puts plastic bags in), cleaning the toilet etc. When she cleans (every couple of weeks at the most) she uses rubber gloves (I need to get some) to avoid touching the cleaners (smart move). I'm not pissed at her for the stuff to do w/ the gloves, I just wish she would take her own freakin' hair out of the drain! Yuck, I mean I have slightly longer than should length hair but I try to pick mine up unlike her w/ below should blade hair & leaves it 2 clog the drain/thank god for paper towels. Plus, I have issues coordinating who pays for what/when (toilet paper & hand soap). I also don't like having to move her stuff out of the shower every time I get in b/c she never does & she has some kind of immune problem (I know she has something serious, but you cannot see it at all/not sickly looking) b/c she's left school for a week over a viral infection & left this weekend (don't know why ). This a normal part of college life? I'm thinking about buying latex gloves to clean w/ but not sure if I should cause I'd have to throw them out every time I use them (I think ). I'm fine w/ cleaning my own room though (its the bathroom & walk-in area that's a problem b/c we have our own separate bedrooms (lucky ). How should I be dealing w/ this type of stuff? (I know I need to avoid sounding like a... but not sure how to do that ).

I would say that this is a normal part of college life and the source of much moaning, ill-feeling and conflict, unfortunately.

The usual way to get round it, and which doesn't make it too personal, is to draw up some kind of cleaning/tidying rota for the shared areas. It would include how often chores are done, and who does them. I'd suggest that you draft up some kind of rota, then ask for her input. If there are things that she can't do then it seems reasonable that she would take on more responsibility for things she can do.

I don't understand why she can't put a bag in the bin. It must be really horrible to empty it if there's no bag in there! Bins in shared accommodation are often filled well past overflowing before someone finally empties them, but it might be an idea to put bin (with bag) emptying down as a more frequent chore, which would mean that the bin bag could be removed every couple of days or so when it is only about half full. That makes the job easier and not as smelly!