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29 Nov 2010, 5:23 am

I'm in an Alt class. I do not identify with anybody. Yet at the same time people want me to "Use good social skills". Most of the girls in their are so freaking annoying. One time we were playing hang man and keep in mind their all "Ballin' thuggaz like us!". My word was the band "Zeromancer"(DUH!! !!). So this chick says "It's on the tip of my tounge, I just can't think of the band" So I said in my twisted little head "I know you can't, you don't really know who they are. For the time being go back to your Biggie Smalls and Fiddy Cent where you belong. Listen to some REAL music and then we'll talk." You don't know how sick I am of this class. The guys are even worse. They like to be all gross, fart, and one of my male friends is pratically out of his mind! When he has meltdowns it brings me to tears. Not to mention all the favortism, it's okay for Miss"Poppin' 40s" to cuss and and make a little skank out of herself but for me when I do it, I get treated like crap! I get yelled at, called a potty mouth, and get in trouble. My teachers also accuse me of being sexually innapropriate. I asked my other male friend what his favorite chapstick was and what kind of girls he likes. I have no romantic intrest in him!! !! He's 14 I'm almost 18. FOUR FREAKIN' YEARS APART! So they told me that I was being sexually innapropriate haven't let me talk to him since. Then I said "My back hurts I'm so glad that I'm getting surgery soon." A male teacher asked me"What kind of surgery?" I said "Breast reduction" Then again, I was accused of being sexually innapropriate.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this bullcrap?!


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29 Nov 2010, 5:57 am

What is alt class? I've never heard of it before so I can't give the best feedback on this.

About the asking the male friend, I don't see why they'd have a problem unless your tone sounded like you were asking for your own interest (ie you being interested in him).

About the male teacher, he asked the question and you answered. It could have been construed as suggestive and them thinking that you said it just to be suggestive instead of a real thing that will happen that will make you feel better.

I remember when I was your age and younger that tone of voice is a thing that many pay attention to more than the words themselves. Taking a few deep breaths before saying anything (when annoyed, upset or otherwise distressed) can help moderate your tone so that they hear your words and not your feeling.



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29 Nov 2010, 6:14 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I'm in an Alt class. I do not identify with anybody. Yet at the same time people want me to "Use good social skills". Most of the girls in their are so freaking annoying. One time we were playing hang man and keep in mind their all "Ballin' thuggaz like us!". My word was the band "Zeromancer"(DUH!! !!). So this chick says "It's on the tip of my tounge, I just can't think of the band" So I said in my twisted little head "I know you can't, you don't really know who they are. For the time being go back to your Biggie Smalls and Fiddy Cent where you belong. Listen to some REAL music and then we'll talk." You don't know how sick I am of this class. The guys are even worse. They like to be all gross, fart, and one of my male friends is pratically out of his mind! When he has meltdowns it brings me to tears. Not to mention all the favortism, it's okay for Miss"Poppin' 40s" to cuss and and make a little skank out of herself but for me when I do it, I get treated like crap! I get yelled at, called a potty mouth, and get in trouble. My teachers also accuse me of being sexually innapropriate. I asked my other male friend what his favorite chapstick was and what kind of girls he likes. I have no romantic intrest in him!! !! He's 14 I'm almost 18. FOUR FREAKIN' YEARS APART! So they told me that I was being sexually innapropriate haven't let me talk to him since. Then I said "My back hurts I'm so glad that I'm getting surgery soon." A male teacher asked me"What kind of surgery?" I said "Breast reduction" Then again, I was accused of being sexually innapropriate.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this bullcrap?!


You're almost 18 and then you can leave.



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29 Nov 2010, 6:15 am

LostAlien wrote:
What is alt class? I've never heard of it before so I can't give the best feedback on this.

About the asking the male friend, I don't see why they'd have a problem unless your tone sounded like you were asking for your own interest (ie you being interested in him).

About the male teacher, he asked the question and you answered. It could have been construed as suggestive and them thinking that you said it just to be suggestive instead of a real thing that will happen that will make you feel better.

I remember when I was your age and younger that tone of voice is a thing that many pay attention to more than the words themselves. Taking a few deep breaths before saying anything (when annoyed, upset or otherwise distressed) can help moderate your tone so that they hear your words and not your feeling.


I believe she means an alternative class. It's a class they put kids or teenagers in that have not done well in traditional classes, and don't really fit in special ed or SED classes.



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29 Nov 2010, 6:52 am

My high school was ghetto, so I can relate to what you're going through.

You're almost through with school, so take each day one at a time and it should be over with before you know it.



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29 Nov 2010, 11:10 am

Hey, school will almost be over. School sucks. That's why I'm leaving college to go do what I want to do.



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29 Nov 2010, 4:57 pm

Chronos wrote:
LostAlien wrote:
What is alt class? I've never heard of it before so I can't give the best feedback on this.

About the asking the male friend, I don't see why they'd have a problem unless your tone sounded like you were asking for your own interest (ie you being interested in him).

About the male teacher, he asked the question and you answered. It could have been construed as suggestive and them thinking that you said it just to be suggestive instead of a real thing that will happen that will make you feel better.

I remember when I was your age and younger that tone of voice is a thing that many pay attention to more than the words themselves. Taking a few deep breaths before saying anything (when annoyed, upset or otherwise distressed) can help moderate your tone so that they hear your words and not your feeling.


I believe she means an alternative class. It's a class they put kids or teenagers in that have not done well in traditional classes, and don't really fit in special ed or SED classes.
Thanks, I didn't know.