If I didn't have an IEP, I would be miserable in every class. Coming from a kid who has one, IEPs are a literal Godsend, and I mean that as truthfully as possible. I'm moved to the front of every classroom, moved away from people who bother me, my classes are switched if required (recently, after being bullied in a PE classroom, it was mandated that I no longer have to take PE classes because of all the incidents that have occurred over the years), I have extended due dates on homework assignments, and I have an entire period devoted to the purposes of getting work done (RSP, if anyone else has it).
Now, my advice to you: get an IEP for your son ASAP! Even with his high intelligence, if he has Asperger's, this will help in tremendous ways! I myself have high intelligence, however, before I was placed on an IEP, my performance in school was miserable.
However, the IEP may not mean anything if your son is not placed with a proper case carrier. Some of the case carriers I've had in the past were horrible (for example, one that I had called Aspies and kids with Autism the "slice and dice" bunch... can you believe this? By that she meant we cut ourselves and hurt teachers and other students... and she taught several RSP classes! Ironically, 2 months after this was said, she died in a horrible car crash... that's karma for you, I guess.), so make sure that the case carrier that your son is placed with has the proper credentials and knows what he or she is doing. My current case carrier is the best I've ever had, but my experiences have proved that good case carriers are few and far between.
Other than that, I say good luck! This probably will be the best thing that you can do for your son's scholarly career.
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