5th year senior - no friends yet

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Ok, I am a 5th year senior in college now and haven't made any friends yet. I haven't actually talked with anyone outside of class yet either. I only have one semester left. I'm not sure if I should even try at this point. I don't know what to do.

I am a 6th yr senior and I haven't developed any friends. I have people I hang out with, but not on a regular basis.

Suicide is the obvious answer. Death can't reject you!

edit: Unless you f**k it up, of course. Go with jumping or shooting. Pills and bleeding are too risky.

I'm not depressed or suicidal.

college is a tough place to make friend for a lot of people. If you're really into sports you might make some decent friends, but for the most part I look for friends outside of school. I've had more success that way.

f*k off, troll noob. gb 2 ytmnd.

Im a junior and haven't made any friends. I was always told college was different than high school and that you made friends easily. For most people it seems thats so, but its not for me.

What about where you live? Most of my friends have resulted from where I live at this point. I don't really stay in contact with anyone from freshman year, since I was in the dorms. Most everyone else is either in the same apartment building as I am, or from classes. (Chemistry department gets smaller as the year in school gets higher, at this point there's probably 20 of us or so that will graduate in spring, makes it easier. Psychology on the other hand, don't really have any friends in that department.) I hang out with people in my building on a daily basis, and it has gotten to the point where I have to lock the door to prevent it at times! (Its gotten to where if you know the person, you just walk into their apartment. Weird building, but then again they'd call me a weird individual.) In some ways I've been lucky though, people I know consider that to be the "exception to the rule" in most cases. Its worth a shot though.

Once you've got a couple friends, it seems like you keep getting more. The first ones are definitely the hardest. I think most I've made have been from people seeing me in the building and saying "Hey, come drink." Heavy drinking school though, so that's the "norm." That, or people trying to make friendly with me, rather than the other way around. Its possible to have friends without trying, though I will admit it takes a little luck, and I've had a fair amount.

bleh, ytmnd shouldn't be hated on the whole. Only the children that get off attacking people with problems in such thoughtless ways. If you're really bored, it can help solve that. Or it can make you want to gouge out your eyes, then your ears. (Or is it the other way around? Guess it depends on the site.)