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Molly2
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09 May 2007, 7:48 pm

Hello, my son has Asperger Sindrome and lately they call me of the school because my son is very undisciplined. Before he didn't have friends and now he has several, so he speak all the time in class and make disorder. Somebody that please helps me. The teacher says that if he makes that he cannot be Asperger, because the Asperger doesn't get friends neither they are undisciplined.

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Hola, mi hijo tiene Asperger y ultimamente me llaman del colegio porque mi hijo es muy indisciplinado. Antes no tenía amigos y ahora tiene varios, así que se la pasa hablando en clase y haciendo desorden. Alguien que me ayude por favor. La profesora dice que si hace eso no puede ser Asperger, porque los Asperger no consiguen amigos ni son indisciplinados.

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09 May 2007, 8:20 pm

Ask the teacher since when she's a doctor. Clearly she doesn't know what she's talking about.
(Prejunta a la profesora desde cuando tiene su titulo como doctor. Es claro que ella no sabe de que esta hablanda.)


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09 May 2007, 8:26 pm

I have tried to explain to her that my son with Asperger, doesn't have to be similar to another boy with Asperger. The diagnosis doesn't determine it, neither he makes it totally similar to other Asperger. It is difficult that she understands it.



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09 May 2007, 8:52 pm

Teachers are idiots sometimes. You should tell them that Aspergers is a disorder that affects the child's aptitude in socializing, not their overall number of friends. (You can have friends and still not know how to socialize, it's possible. Look at me)

Maestros son idiotas a veces. Tu debes decir que Aspergers es un desorder que affecto el aptitud de socializacion del nino, no su numero de amigos. (Tu puede tener amigos y no se como a socializar, es posible. Miras a mi.)


See? I can speak Spanish too! I learn it in spanish class at my school. :D

Ves? Yo puedo hablar espanol tambien! Yo aprendolo en el clase de espanol en mi escuela. :D


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09 May 2007, 9:22 pm

Thanks for your answers. I fell better.

Do you have (or had) the appropiate help in your school? My son's teacher is a little... incomprehensive with my child's situation. It is a little oppressive that she put me complaints the whole time.

My english is not very good. Sorry. :lol: :lol:



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10 May 2007, 12:55 am

Some teachers refuse to come your way a bit, because they don't want to deal with the inconvenience of having to apply different standards to different people.


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10 May 2007, 2:57 am

Saying aspie kids can't have friends is just ridiculous...



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10 May 2007, 9:15 am

I can't believe that the teacher in question makes such strong and harsh judgments about something she knows little-to-nothing about.
She probably saw it in a low-brow film or something and now she thinks she's the all knowing oracle.



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10 May 2007, 4:07 pm

Molly2 wrote:
My english is not very good. Sorry. :lol: :lol:


No problem. I'm not very good at spanish, though it's fun to learn. (I always look in the dictionary, though)

No problemo. Soy no hablo espanol muy bien, aunque se es divertido a ayudar. (Yo siempre miro en el diccionario, aunque)


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