apinkpony wrote:
My question for homeschoolers is an interesting one, particularly when related to people with AS.
I feel that I learned more social skills because I was at the school enviroment. My mom looks back and wonders if she should have homeschooled me, but I feel like if I was homeschool I would not have any social skills and would be far worse and far more stereotypically AS. I see NT folks at my college who were homeschooled, and they have very bad social skills -- worse than my own.
Do you feel like you missed out on perhaps developing some social skills?
Certainly. I might not even be on this forum if I wasn't homeschooled.
I was homeschooled 1st-6th in a program where we turned in homework samples once every two weeks. I never really did anything except what I liked, such as finishing my 2nd grade math book in 4 weeks, and reading all of the reading book but completely neglecting the writing related stuff. When it came to turning in samples of stuff I hadn't sone, my parents would help me do just the pages that needed to be turned in the night before. Oddly enogh, my testing scores were always above average.
7th grade, since we moved and had to find a new program, I ended up doing nothing at all.
8th grade I convinced my parents to send me to public school since I thought I was missing out. I ended up becoming class president and holding high honors in all classes... but practically failing gym. Also, I was accepted into an "Ivy League" high school.
9th, we moved again so I ended up doing nothing again. 10th-12th I did independant study.
Of all the years in my life, 8th grade is the only time I feel I got close to having friends.