Today I participated in a psych study called Deal or No Deal. The situation is that one of you is a potential employee, and the other person is the potential employer, and you have to negotiate a contract with things like salary, holidays, performance bonuses, job position and location. The point system is set up so that for most of the criteria, the two people want opposite things.
I was the potential employee... I kept trying to negotiate and my partner wouldn't! He simply wouldn't compromise at all. I only got tiny concessions when time ran out and we had to make a contract. He won, 20,000 points to my 10,000. He was also making stuff up preventing me from getting certain combinations that I needed. ("There is no consulting department in the tokyo office, so you can't do that")
Now I'm frustrated. I know how to negotiate! Did I do so badly because he wasn't negotiating - or because I'm not good at figuring out what was and wasn't important to him? Sigh.