Lintar wrote:
ictus75 wrote:
Unfortunately, these types of tests are quite slanted, and as an Aspie you need to know how to answer the questions to fit what they are looking for. This can often be difficult to do, given many Aspie's have a strong honesty streak and find answering differently than they really feel not an option. Still, we sometimes need to play the game just to get the job…
If this is the level I have to sink to in order to "get the job", then I would rather not work for such a company. Any idiot with half a brain can clearly see that these tests are specifically designed to weed us out, to discriminate in favour of morons who like to waste the company's time engaging in office politics and gossip, and all for the sake of being a "team player" and "fitting in".
I have only ever been confronted with one example of such a test (in Australia they are still relatively unknown), and I knew what the "correct" answers to the questions were, even though the meaningless disclaimer told me there were "no correct answers to the test" (yeah, right). Of
course there are correct answers, ones that they want you to give. I still gave honest answers to the questions though, because I simply do not accept the belief that so many employers seem to have about us that, because of our lack of social skills, we aren't fit to work. It's called "work" for a very good reason - we are there
to do a job. What else?!
See, this is the kicker. I just did one of these tests and
not even for a single moment did it occur to me to just baldly LIE. I could see the answers I was giving were probably not what they were after, as anyone who admits to liking time alone is immediately seen by normal people as a threat/weirdo/mental-case, but it
did not even occur to me to give answers that were not true just because this was what the examiner wanted to hear.
I have a great deal of difficulty explaining this to people and it's beginning to seriously piss me off. People just LIE. Needlessly. All the time. About everything. And when I say I don't lie - if something is untrue and I know it to be untrue I cannot say that it is true - I get stupid speeches about how I need to grow up, learn to play the game, because otherwise I'll never get anywhere in life and it'll all be my fault because lying your arse off is apparently a basic prerequisite for life and telling the truth is a childish character flaw.
That doesn't make me Jim Carey in "Liar, Liar" - I don't compulsively blurt out the truth about absolutely everything uncontrollably - I usually keep my mouth shut or if asked about a topic I want to keep private, I will say I am not willing to answer that question or speak about that topic.
I WILL NOT LIE ABOUT IT INSTEAD and I'm sick of being told I have to.
Lintar wrote:
Don't bother trying to pretend to be someone you are not. If, by some miracle, you managed to tell them what they wanted to hear and ended up being employed by them, you would very quickly become miserable due to the very nature of extrovert-NT workplaces where everyone jokes around, gossips, and generally behaves like a baboon. I've had so many jobs like that, and in the end I came to the realisation that I would rather be poor, hungry and unemployed than have to put up with that kind of s**t.
Agreed. I view disclosing I am autistic (by way of refusing to take my medical ID info off) to be the same. If you're me, it's going to be obvious eventually, even if I manage to come across as "together" at an interview. Employers need to know this about me. They need to know that is going to be part of my behaviour and thinking. Trying to hide it just to make a good first impression only leads to people being hostile tenfold later, when they realize what I'm really like and then behave as if I have tricked them into thinking I'm normal when instead I'm a useless autistic.
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