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Homer_Bob
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05 May 2012, 8:20 pm

For someone with aspergers who's either a teen or a young person getting through college I actually found working in the grocery department of a supermarket to be great fit. The pay's terrible of course but for younger adults, it's not a bad job. When I worked at a supermarket for four years, I would work on the grocery load stocking shelves and I virtually was able to work by myself, at my own pace and would never be bothered by customers or supervisors. In the grocery department, you barely need any social skills. What's good about that is there's no drama or conflict with co-workers. I don't have to work directly with other co-workers. If I was a cashier, I'd probably kill myself.


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06 May 2012, 1:31 am

I keep recommending software testing and people keep ignoring me.

On the other hand, i did it well enough, and worked hard enough on my communication skills, that i ended up a manager.

The worst part of my job is trying to keep a less functional aspie from getting fired.

But i have a private office on the less popular side of the building and my office neighbors don't care if i listen to music on the stereo i installed in it.



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08 May 2012, 10:24 am

I think the perfect job for me would be working as an administrative assistant in a church setting. I did that two summers ago and I felt completely at home and doing what I loved doing. Even though it included socializing, I didn't mind it at all. I didn't feel judged or anything. Hopefully I can get a job like that again sometime.



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08 May 2012, 12:17 pm

Yvanna wrote:
This is such a fascinating thread. I have been a teacher for eight years, and found out I am an Aspie 8 months ago.

The psychologist who diagnosed me pointed out - correctly - that teaching is a stressful career choice for an Aspie. Yes, it has been extremely stressful at times. And yes, I am looking for something less stressful, now that I have better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses - maybe a PhD in education, maybe one-to-one teaching.

However, I'm not sure that I regret the last eight years. I've learned to tolerate extreme noise and chaos (which has been very useful since I became a parent!), have learned to think about how I appear to others and to present myself clearly and coherently, and have improved my interpersonal skills in stressful situations (e.g. behaviour management of difficult students). I recognised myself in Tony Attwood's description of Aspies who model themselves on an NT peer - I often find myself copying the behaviour management strategies of others. Anyway, choosing a difficult career has taught me things that I wouldn't have learned if I had chosen an 'Aspie-friendly' job.


I was a preschool teacher for awhile. I couldn't really handle it. I can handle it when the children actually listen but when the behaviour problems start creeping up that's when it gets tough for me. I've learned to accept noise and chaos in the workplace to an extent but it still tired me out everyday. It's especially hard for me because it's hard to regulate my emotions, especially when dealing with younger children. Right now I'm doing home daycare but I'm switching fields to Library and Information Tech this September for something that I can handle a little bit better.



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08 May 2012, 12:18 pm

Homer_Bob wrote:
For someone with aspergers who's either a teen or a young person getting through college I actually found working in the grocery department of a supermarket to be great fit. The pay's terrible of course but for younger adults, it's not a bad job. When I worked at a supermarket for four years, I would work on the grocery load stocking shelves and I virtually was able to work by myself, at my own pace and would never be bothered by customers or supervisors. In the grocery department, you barely need any social skills. What's good about that is there's no drama or conflict with co-workers. I don't have to work directly with other co-workers. If I was a cashier, I'd probably kill myself.


I've always wanted a job like that but they simply don't hire girls for doing those jobs where I live.



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08 May 2012, 12:27 pm

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I've always wanted a job like that but they simply don't hire girls for doing those jobs where I live.


Well ... have you ever applied to one? I've never noticed any females doing this where I live either, come to think of it. But imagine for a second that management did not care one way or the other. If everyone looked and saw that only males were doing that job, and said to themselves "Oh, they don't hire females" and therefore none applied, well ....



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08 May 2012, 7:18 pm

Cleaning toilets at 3 am , I'd much rather clean peoples %^&& than have to deal with it directly. That and I'm looking for a night job so I can spend my day with my birdies :) when you've been on disability for 11 years "beggars can't chosers" even my GP with his Cosby fantasies ie way to optimisitic on life, thinks theirs such a thing as "practical realities."



Which is a crock of %^% if the whole world was aspie they would use their use logic and think I did nothing wrong and the stupidity in the workplace/medical profession got me in that situation ,so why should I suffer the consequences going in to the future?


To think I now have to kiss some ones $%^& for a dead end job, the indignity of it all ?


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08 May 2012, 7:25 pm

I graduated with a BA in Psychology and I tried to pursue mental health. However, when I began my work with my state's DVR program, the psychiatrist who analyzed me highly recommended against it. So, I had to start from scratch...

Throughout the months, I have been trying to figure out what I'm good at and what I could adapt to. It wasn't easy, but I began to break down what wasn't the best fit for me piece by piece.

I finally realized that I'm more suited to handling money and information for a company. It's just difficult trying to reach that point...

However, I DO know that I will help run a non-profit organization. Currently, I volunteer as its treasurer and when it grows, I will have more responsibilities and, eventually, I will run the organization myself.


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10 May 2012, 6:25 pm

Homer_Bob wrote:
For someone with aspergers who's either a teen or a young person getting through college I actually found working in the grocery department of a supermarket to be great fit. The pay's terrible of course but for younger adults, it's not a bad job. When I worked at a supermarket for four years, I would work on the grocery load stocking shelves and I virtually was able to work by myself, at my own pace and would never be bothered by customers or supervisors. In the grocery department, you barely need any social skills. What's good about that is there's no drama or conflict with co-workers. I don't have to work directly with other co-workers. If I was a cashier, I'd probably kill myself.


That's some good advise their, lucky for me I own my own home and can afford a dead end job, :) a job well away from the NT's I was reminded how unpleasant they really can be today:



I was at the newsagent and I got a snide and condescending remark along the lines 'are you gonna buy anything" now if I hadn't been treated like a living breathing venereal disease I probably would not have snapped. I think my extreme logical brain kicked in if he finds customers like myself so unpleasant he should put up a sign saying browsing is fine reading is not like certain other newsagents do (which is what I do anyways perhaps a few minutes once a week or so (and yes like I explained to him he does know I buy stuff their from time to time.


I shouldn't have bitten :cry: he was a business owner after all so I wouldn't expect anything less aren't all or most business owners right wing pricks?


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11 May 2012, 11:27 am

UAV pilot? Dunno... I like RC planes...

Also, freelance web designer. No(or minimal) socializing, rigid process in web creation(and most websites are the same nevertheless, even some are fancier visually),good pay(if you know SEO), work at home, blah blah blah...



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11 May 2012, 9:37 pm

Movie projectionist

It's pretty relaxing and you don't have to deal directly with people too often.

Pay is poor, though.



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14 May 2012, 1:12 pm

For me the ideal job would be working with animals as a zoo keeper,marine biologist, etc. You usually have low contact with lots of people, work on your own and the animals lower your stress.



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14 May 2012, 4:21 pm

I've found Data Entry to be REALLY good for me. Especially during its 3rd shift (a.k.a. - Overnight Shift) You usually tend to yourself and the tasks are easy and ongoing (typing numbers and letters over and over, just changing up a little bit from time to time.)

The only hard part is waiting for when you want to take a break or lunch or staying away and aware to detail. The philosophy about it that I'm told is to pay attention more to detail than production time since speed will come within time, and that is a good thing consider most aspies are uncomfortable in a fast-moving environment



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14 May 2012, 5:42 pm

I'm a software tester and i love the job. Its a job where i get left to my own devices to learn software and break it down to test it. I work in small teams (or by myself at times) where I plan and do things my own way. I guess its the challange of a closed system with rules and testing them to the limit. Works perfectly for consuming my over analytical mind!

I also don't have anyone looking over my shoulder too but thats just down to a good office atmosphere i suppose! I feel lucky with my job in any case as i have done the counter work and dealing with drunks in a late night job previously. Couldnt stand dealing with new people all day long!



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15 May 2012, 10:16 pm

Personal women's yoga instructor-going to a vey holistic yoga "teacher" training-and it's my passion,it's the reason I am here,and already I have 8-10 potential clients! I know I'll have a place to work out of,so I won't have to rent a studio,or hop from location to location.
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16 May 2012, 12:00 pm

I would say, from both this thread and my personal experience, the choice depends on what you can deal with in terms of social interaction.

I like teaching. Pretty frigging good at it too. I could explain a baby quantum physics, assuming I would understand quantum physics and the baby understood Dutch or English + basics maths. Then again, this is probably related to my verbal capacities combined with logical reasoning, things not every aspie has in this combination or degree.

If you dive into mathematical/reasoning/logic based professions, please find some stable emotional support first. You might not interact, but expression your own emotions is vital tot long term survival.