are people with as less likely to get jobs?

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juliekitty
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05 Jan 2008, 8:35 pm

yep.

best thing to do is learn something not many other people know, or get better at something than most other people, or get qualifications not many other people have. then they need you, and they'll overlook your weirdness as a result.

if you are easily replaced by an nt, that's what will happen in most cases.



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06 Jan 2008, 11:31 am

Yes people have AS and it's a challenge, but you can't let that hold you back from pursuing your dreams and goals. Yes, you may have to work harder than other people, but you can succeed in the workplace. You just have to develop strategies for working around your weaknesses.



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07 Jan 2008, 4:31 pm

juliekitty wrote:
best thing to do is learn something not many other people know, or get better at something than most other people, or get qualifications not many other people have. then they need you, and they'll overlook your weirdness as a result.


Agreed. I would say it is more difficult for an aspie to find a job equal to their abilities. However, job description is key. If you find something you like or can do (accounting, computers, etc.), you can get the job on your skills and keep it with your work ethic and abilities. Managers will work with or around someone who contributes to the bottom line. Show them you can contribute, and you will earn a paycheck.



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07 Jan 2008, 6:29 pm

Yes and no. Yes most of the time but certain times it actually helps.



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23 Dec 2009, 2:35 am

Well if you apply to a job at a company that gives accomodations for people with disabilities, they will be very much helpful.



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23 Dec 2009, 8:17 am

Zort wrote:
Presentation is everything at an interview.


+1,000

Even if an employer wants to hire "the best" they base their choice on presentation. If you have AS but an established track record of being great at something, maybe they'll decide purely on your ability, but most every interview goes on how you come across and connect with the interviewer. People with AS normally have a significant disadvantage in this area.



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23 Dec 2009, 9:32 am

I practiced doing interviews with my dad. I also read about how to do interviews and all and the questions that most employers ask. I had 3 interviews in one day, and one called me back the next day to let me know I got hired.


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26 Dec 2009, 3:42 am

I don't think we're less likely to get jobs, but interviews are usually our weak points.

I find it easy to keep a job.


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27 Dec 2009, 1:52 pm

Tsaryn wrote:
Izaak wrote:
I am, however, employed well below my capacity. Still got good pay, but no one has taken a punt and given me a job worthy of my skill levels. I do not interview well.


Boy, do I hear ya on that--when I am in an interview, it's like I have a label on my forehead that says "please ignore everything I am saying, and please ignore everything in my resume, all of my accomplishments, everything-- you don't really want me, because I'm not like you." Doesn't seem to matter what your IQ is, how many degrees you have, or how hard you work--NT's can spot you a mile away. Most jobs I've been granted have been because someone non-NT was doing the hiring. That's the case with my current position, which I can't complain too much about because the pay is better than I've ever had, I'm granted a certain level of independence, and my current boss is slightly non-NT (in my opinion) so life isn't too bad. Still, a day doesn't go by that I don't wish I was doing something different, and about what I should be doing, what my potential is, and that if given a chance, I could do great things in the world. (OK-- I'm done feeling sorry for myself now). =)


these posts I can relate to so much. I am not an easy read...but boy have I paid for being non-NT once I am outed. It makes me miserable to the point of desperation on just about every job I have ever had. I clean offices buildings right now, working alone for peanuts, just because I am and never will be at the skill level to deal with 'office politics'. I am way too truthful and take everything straight to heart.



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03 Jan 2010, 4:38 am

I am 30 years old and I never got a job when there was an interview. And never got accepted in any school when there was an interview, even if my grades and abilities are far over average. I did a masters degree in criminology and it's all thanks to the fact that there was no interview.

And I got accepted in a comedy writing school only the 2nd time I applyed even if they knew I wrote for some comedians. They thought I would have too much trouble interracting with other students and that I was too asocial to have a chance to suceed in the workfield ... they almost let me slipped away. I had to explain them my condition and tell them that I would take actions at the human right commission if they refused me another time.

As tsarin said: "it's like I have a label on my forehead that says "please ignore everything I am saying, and please ignore everything in my resume, all of my accomplishments, everything-- you don't really want me, because I'm not like you"

I am different, I look different (I look and think like Freud), I dont seem funny but I write bright and funny stuff (but only in French, sorry). And still I needed to rush the system to let me move in. Now I work for one of the most well known comedians in Quebec and I begin to be recognize but (and it's even worst in the artistic industry) intellectuality looks bad. People seems to see depth and creativity as two opposites. That's non-sense.

I'll stop there for today, hope it helps the debate.