Applying for disability, and looking for a job?.
Also wanted to add.
Someone in a very round about way already mentioned that Disability is about providing support for people that basically can't provide for themselves.
To be entirely honest, if I was a Case Worker in DSHS or the SSI Office right now, and you came up to me and told me that you beleived you wouldn't get EBT when you're unemployed, Id would probably deny your Disability request too.
DSHS and SSI process' tens, if not hundreds, of thousands of requests for assistance a year, and thats just for one state. One of the few measuring sticks they can use to determine the legitimacy of people's claims of need for assistance is the effort in which they're struggling to survive. Struggle, as defined by our society, tends to be demonstrated by provable attempts. You can't go through the process of trying to get an EBT card and not come away with a definitive answer about why you are, or are not, eligible for it, and if you don't have one (A definitive answer), they know you haven't even tried for it.
Another way of looking at it is this. The government only has so much cash to doll out (As evidenced by our Deficit). DSHS and SSI are an open flow of Cash Out back into our society. They have a responsibility to our society to at least try to make sure that people really need cash before they give it out. If you're being fed, clothed, and sheltered entirely by someone else, without even trying to get out on your own (Or as is the case between alot of parents and children, being forced out), they're just going to figure "They're being taken care of, they don't need what we can give, so we can give it to this 14 y.o. that was just beaten and physically thrown from home and told to never come back instead". Not that you're not just as deserving of financial help as that 14 y.o. is, but that 14 y.o. can probably go to a Case worker, point to a series of police reports to validate their story (Not to mention they've, at this point, certainly been sitting in DSHS for a few hours if not visiting over a number of days just for the chance to ask a Case Worker for help), be given the support they need and move on. So if you go to that same case worker, what are you going to point to? The more you struggle for it, the more proof you are going to accumulate that you really can't do what you say you can't. It won't be easy, it was designed that way, otherwise everyone would be drawing SSI and sitting back doing nothing.
At the very least, I highly suggest going down to DSHS and talking with them. I recommend not doing it over the phone because the phone banks they tend to run tend to be designed for people that already know exactly what they want and are probably already getting it, but if you're unsure about things, calling is at least a first step.
DSHS is the place that runs most of the Social Nets you've heard about. SSI is the only exception (To the best of my knowledge), but I promise you're going to have a MUCH stronger case for disability benefit if you come to them with a list of all the other assistance you're getting because you can't do it on your own.
Good Luck,
Aldran
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They're now Called Snap (Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program) or EBT (Can't remember the definition for that one, Electronic something something). And they no longer look at an entire household.
They Run your SSN # and if you have no income to your name and you're over a certain age you qualify. Even if you're under that age if you tell them you're not being fed or taken care of by your legal guardians they'll probably try to help but at that point they're probably calling Child Protective Services, lol.
The whole process is actually pretty painless. The only thing they might do is limit the Amount of Dollars they put on your card if you tell them your mother is taking care of you (I wouldn't, and they won't ask). I had a friend in High School that got EBT even though he was 18 and living at home. $300/month, and all he told them was that he doesn't always live at home with his parents. Ive known College Graduates with Bachelors on EBT, Suburban Families on it, etc etc. Its probably about the ONLY social Safety net thats working how its supposed to right now and isn't under too much threat of being defunded by Congress.
Further, nows the time to get EBT because they're stream lining the process because of all the unemployment. I mean, if Millionaire former CEO's can get $300/month for food just because they were let go at the end of their contract, you can too. My total income right now is less then the poverty level for my state (17+K/yr) and I have basically full EBT coverage for food, and boy does it help. All I had to do was apply online, wait ~1.5 weeks, go to DSHS in person with pay stubs to prove my income, and I walked out the door that same day with my EBT card. Ive heard not all states are quite this streamlined, but also that every state is making huge efforts to make EBT more accessible to the people that definitely need it.
Finally, Getting on EBT will get you access to other help through DSHS. They have cash assistance programs for things like Perscription Glasses, clothing, living assistance etc etc (This all varies with state). Every EBT card comes with 2 Accounts, one is Food only and the cash can only be used for uncooked food at any store that accepts EBT, the other is the Cash account, and though I don't exactly how it works, they'll just put cash on it. Either way, an EBT card won't hurt, and won't be too hard to get.
If you tell me/us what state you live in, we might be able to help you navigate the *probably* moderately complicated and certainly less then friendly social assistance programs in your state......
Good Luck,
Aldran
Well I am 22 years old so I don't think child protective services could help me.........that said the issue I run into with the food stamp thing, and I really could use food stamps so I could maybe start eating a bit more healthy and often. But since I am staying at my moms house and her income is above the poverty threshold I don't have access to crap. There is food at her house but a lot of times I am not there, there is nothing all that healthy to eat unless I want pizza, chips ect that are likely to be expired then I typically just go hungry. If there are left-overs or I am there long enough to cook something for myself that is an option. But yeah I hate that I am knowingly neglecting my health because I cant afford to buy my own food.
And I live in Colorado, around the Denver area.
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Someone in a very round about way already mentioned that Disability is about providing support for people that basically can't provide for themselves.
To be entirely honest, if I was a Case Worker in DSHS or the SSI Office right now, and you came up to me and told me that you beleived you wouldn't get EBT when you're unemployed, Id would probably deny your Disability request too.
DSHS and SSI process' tens, if not hundreds, of thousands of requests for assistance a year, and thats just for one state. One of the few measuring sticks they can use to determine the legitimacy of people's claims of need for assistance is the effort in which they're struggling to survive. Struggle, as defined by our society, tends to be demonstrated by provable attempts. You can't go through the process of trying to get an EBT card and not come away with a definitive answer about why you are, or are not, eligible for it, and if you don't have one (A definitive answer), they know you haven't even tried for it.
Another way of looking at it is this. The government only has so much cash to doll out (As evidenced by our Deficit). DSHS and SSI are an open flow of Cash Out back into our society. They have a responsibility to our society to at least try to make sure that people really need cash before they give it out. If you're being fed, clothed, and sheltered entirely by someone else, without even trying to get out on your own (Or as is the case between alot of parents and children, being forced out), they're just going to figure "They're being taken care of, they don't need what we can give, so we can give it to this 14 y.o. that was just beaten and physically thrown from home and told to never come back instead". Not that you're not just as deserving of financial help as that 14 y.o. is, but that 14 y.o. can probably go to a Case worker, point to a series of police reports to validate their story (Not to mention they've, at this point, certainly been sitting in DSHS for a few hours if not visiting over a number of days just for the chance to ask a Case Worker for help), be given the support they need and move on. So if you go to that same case worker, what are you going to point to? The more you struggle for it, the more proof you are going to accumulate that you really can't do what you say you can't. It won't be easy, it was designed that way, otherwise everyone would be drawing SSI and sitting back doing nothing.
At the very least, I highly suggest going down to DSHS and talking with them. I recommend not doing it over the phone because the phone banks they tend to run tend to be designed for people that already know exactly what they want and are probably already getting it, but if you're unsure about things, calling is at least a first step.
DSHS is the place that runs most of the Social Nets you've heard about. SSI is the only exception (To the best of my knowledge), but I promise you're going to have a MUCH stronger case for disability benefit if you come to them with a list of all the other assistance you're getting because you can't do it on your own.
Good Luck,
Aldran
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I hate misunderstandings, so Ill try and clear this up some.
I didn't say what I did to tell you these things aren't going to happen, or that you should give up. I said them as an outline about how they work.
The mention of CPS was meant to be funny, I apologize it didn't work. I figured you were over that age because you said you were in College at one point.
The point Im making about EBT is that anyone can get it.... Its dead easy to get. And Im asking you to please not assume anything, particularly based merely on your parents income. If you're over the age where CPS could do anything for you, DSHS, and indeed our entire society, will consider you to be an adult, and treat you as such. An Adult is a person capable of going out and living on their own, even if they need help to do it, be it Financially or not.
The point I was trying to make about SSI/Disability is that if you don't do anything but send in applications for JUST disability, all you're doing is proving you know how to fill out paperwork..... Anyone can fill out paperwork..... Paperwork doesn't get you disability...... Being Disabled gets you disability, and if you're really unable to work, you have to prove it, but don't worry because you CAN prove it. Just go out there and do it. I know Im even willing to help you do it to what extent I can considering Im living in a different state at the moment and only know you through a computer screen..... If you've been to college, you can deal with DSHS, this isn't hard stuff.....
But w/e. If you're so convinced that you're right you won't even go look it up or try for it, far be it from anyone else with actual experience of the system to give you any advice I guess.....
Good Luck regardless, and my offer still stands,
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I didn't say what I did to tell you these things aren't going to happen, or that you should give up. I said them as an outline about how they work.
The mention of CPS was meant to be funny, I apologize it didn't work. I figured you were over that age because you said you were in College at one point.
The point Im making about EBT is that anyone can get it.... Its dead easy to get. And Im asking you to please not assume anything, particularly based merely on your parents income. If you're over the age where CPS could do anything for you, DSHS, and indeed our entire society, will consider you to be an adult, and treat you as such. An Adult is a person capable of going out and living on their own, even if they need help to do it, be it Financially or not.
Well its more like I looked up the information online, they had a tool to determine if you would be eligible for food stamps and should schedule an appointment at the office they do that. Apparently due to my moms income since I live at her house, there I have a room to stay in rent free(which I am grateful for because I don't have anywhere else to live) but that's it. Other then I am allowed to eat the food there when I am there. So yeah its according to their regulations I can't get them, not any assumptions on my part. But if there is something you know that I don't please tell me because I really could use some help with this.
The point I was trying to make about SSI/Disability is that if you don't do anything but send in applications for JUST disability, all you're doing is proving you know how to fill out paperwork..... Anyone can fill out paperwork..... Paperwork doesn't get you disability...... Being Disabled gets you disability, and if you're really unable to work, you have to prove it, but don't worry because you CAN prove it. Just go out there and do it. I know Im even willing to help you do it to what extent I can considering Im living in a different state at the moment and only know you through a computer screen..... If you've been to college, you can deal with DSHS, this isn't hard stuff.....
But w/e. If you're so convinced that you're right you won't even go look it up or try for it, far be it from anyone else with actual experience of the system to give you any advice I guess.....
Good Luck regardless, and my offer still stands,
Aldran
Also, I've gotten fired from two jobs for being too slow, shutting down and becoming even slower under stress, not being able to do a bunch of tasks at once at the fast pace required and just my general abnormalities like not making eye contact. I also had a work study job and while I did not get fired my employer brought up those same issues along with even more. So yes my condition does effect my ability to function at a job. Also I ended up dropping out of community college after dropping out of four year college because I could not even handle the work load for three classes, and since I have PTSD from some psycho coming in my highschool and shooting a student. Being in a school environment triggers some unpleasant symptoms. Not to mention since these issues can interfere with my work ability I felt it was not very smart to keep taking out loans with no real guarantee or strong indication I'll ever be able to pay them back.
Also I am not familiar with what exactly DSHS is, and its not so much I want to give up on the idea of disability, its more like I don't feel like I really have a choice and already got denied....I mean if I apply again maybe having had to drop out of college do to psychological problems will help but I just don't know. That is why I feel like my only option is too find work or I'm screwed. But if you can think of anything helpful to say or suggest about that I am quite open to it, I am just not used to things working out. Sorry if my attitude towards this is so off-putting you don't want to help anymore I am just really stressing about this. So if you choose to I appreciate it if not, well I guess it's my loss.
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DSHS = Department of Social and Health Services.
Wellfare? Medicaid? EBT/Food Stamps? All of these are managed through DSHS. SSI is a seperate office. Financial Disability Aid tends to be through SSI, but EVERYTHING else, to the best of my knowledge, is through DSHS.
Applying for one thing and not getting DOES NOT equate to being turned down for EVERYTHING. It just means they don't think you have a strong enough Case for THAT ONE thing.
DSHS is THE PLACE you go when you need Financial help and have no where else to go. They usually can't help you the Same Day, but they can get the ball rolling on some pretty powerful tools.
EBT is a Seperate Program from Disability.....
Anyway, I need to go as I dont have anymore time atm to deal with this. PM me if you wish, and Ill get back as soon as I can. I might not be back on the board for a few days though.
And no, I don't mind helping. My only issue with your attitude was the apparent assumption you had that "Oh, they'll never give it to me". You wont know until you try.
Good luck,
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Wellfare? Medicaid? EBT/Food Stamps? All of these are managed through DSHS. SSI is a seperate office. Financial Disability Aid tends to be through SSI, but EVERYTHING else, to the best of my knowledge, is through DSHS.
Applying for one thing and not getting DOES NOT equate to being turned down for EVERYTHING. It just means they don't think you have a strong enough Case for THAT ONE thing.
DSHS is THE PLACE you go when you need Financial help and have no where else to go. They usually can't help you the Same Day, but they can get the ball rolling on some pretty powerful tools.
EBT is a Seperate Program from Disability.....
Anyway, I need to go as I dont have anymore time atm to deal with this. PM me if you wish, and Ill get back as soon as I can. I might not be back on the board for a few days though.
And no, I don't mind helping. My only issue with your attitude was the apparent assumption you had that "Oh, they'll never give it to me". You wont know until you try.
Good luck,
Aldran
Ok I guess I would contact DSHS than.
Also after I got denied for disability, I tried to just get on medicaid and according to the information on the website for SSI where it talks about medicaid it says you can only get on medicaid if you are over 65 or on disability........again not my words theirs. That is why I did not apply for medicaid because according to them I cant.
I am aware EBT is seperate from disability, I went to the EBT website and according to that tool I mentioned in my last response I cant get food stamps because I live at my moms house and her income is too high...That is what it says on their website.
So I am having a very hard time seeing how you're getting the impression I haven't tried and I wish I could express myself better so people would not always think things like that about me.
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Aldran, you do need to realize how different DSHS benefits are state to state.
In Massachusetts, the income of people who you live with, who aren't applying, also can be taken into account (its not guaranteed to, or not to). In Colorado this might also be the case.
I'm unemployed, being given money by my parents, fit the requirements for SSI medically, and because I don't financially fit the requirements for SSI, I do not qualify for most of the potential DSHS benefits. SNAP in particular I'd qualify for, but for a very limited amount of money (because the money from my parents counts as income and reduces the money they'd give me, despite the fact that if you take into account my medical expenses (which I'm spending the money beyond food and rent on), I'd get near the full amount possible).
In order to count my medical expenses, I'd need to be getting benefits that I only can get if I'm either working or have SSI. In order to get something like Mass Health, I'd need to be working or have SSI. In each of these cases, the fact that I'm on the highest priority category for vocational rehab is irrelevant, and I can't attempt to prove a disability to them directly. I only can qualify as 'disabled', if I can get SSI (or benefits that are harder to get than SSI for me personally).
My situation here is straightforward. I have a trust fund with more than $2000 in it from my grandparents, and until my parents help me transfer it into a special needs trust, or until I spend it (which my parents have been limiting, though I legally have access to it, which basically means buying a house or with my parents' help), I can't qualify for SSI, despite the fact that even before I was diagnosed with Asperger's I was told I should apply for SSI. I'll go through that process as soon as the monetary side has been taken into account. I've been told it shouldn't take more more than one appeal.
Sweetleaf, as for the original question at the beginning. I've been told if you're looking for a job, they're more likely to accept an application for SSI, not less likely. If you try looking through your state's vocational rehab, that might be even more likely (I know in Massachusetts that is said to be the case, but I also know that working with Mass Rehab much requires a higher level of disability than required in other states, because of lack of money to do much with people who aren't priority level 1).
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In Massachusetts, the income of people who you live with, who aren't applying, also can be taken into account (its not guaranteed to, or not to). In Colorado this might also be the case.
I'm unemployed, being given money by my parents, fit the requirements for SSI medically, and because I don't financially fit the requirements for SSI, I do not qualify for most of the potential DSHS benefits. SNAP in particular I'd qualify for, but for a very limited amount of money (because the money from my parents counts as income and reduces the money they'd give me, despite the fact that if you take into account my medical expenses (which I'm spending the money beyond food and rent on), I'd get near the full amount possible).
In order to count my medical expenses, I'd need to be getting benefits that I only can get if I'm either working or have SSI. In order to get something like Mass Health, I'd need to be working or have SSI. In each of these cases, the fact that I'm on the highest priority category for vocational rehab is irrelevant, and I can't attempt to prove a disability to them directly. I only can qualify as 'disabled', if I can get SSI (or benefits that are harder to get than SSI for me personally).
My situation here is straightforward. I have a trust fund with more than $2000 in it from my grandparents, and until my parents help me transfer it into a special needs trust, or until I spend it (which my parents have been limiting, though I legally have access to it, which basically means buying a house or with my parents' help), I can't qualify for SSI, despite the fact that even before I was diagnosed with Asperger's I was told I should apply for SSI. I'll go through that process as soon as the monetary side has been taken into account. I've been told it shouldn't take more more than one appeal.
Sweetleaf, as for the original question at the beginning. I've been told if you're looking for a job, they're more likely to accept an application for SSI, not less likely. If you try looking through your state's vocational rehab, that might be even more likely (I know in Massachusetts that is said to be the case, but I also know that working with Mass Rehab much requires a higher level of disability than required in other states, because of lack of money to do much with people who aren't priority level 1).
Neither of my parents are giving me money of any kind except my dad because I let him borrow some money and he just paid me back. thing is if my dad gets the house we used to live in before my parents got divorced back and I claim his address I could get food stamps or if he finds a different house he can afford...but that only helps if this official residence is in colorado.
Though maybe I could get a P.O box and use that, but I am not sure if it would work......at least then I would not have to depend on parents address but you might need an actual address, I will have to look into that because the main thing is due to the household income at my moms address claiming that as my own prevents me from getting food stamps.
Well maybe I just don't like the idea of this vocational rehab, I can't function like a normal person and everything I've heard about it seems to indicate that a lot of times the employees there are rude and expect you to act normal in which case I would rather just apply online to jobs or go into places and ask for applications. But maybe I am wrong I suppose I could look into it and if it seemed helpful maybe even see what help they would offer, so long as I would not be obligated to keep using the service if I decided I did not want to anymore. Though one thing do they typically help with part time work or just full time or both, because I am only intrested in part time work for the time being.
I guess it also does not hurt to still send in the disability application while looking for work either so that I will do.
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If you're only doing things because you 'don't like it' then you won't prove that you should be on disability, or don't deserve disability. It's not just 'I don't feel like trying to work in this society' money, its "I cannot work and have tried".
A state's vocational rehab group is different than going into an agency that tries to help normal people find a job. They're specifically meant for disabled people and specifically are there to help you work around your disabilities as best as you are able. The person I was assigned as my case worker works primarily with people with ASDs. She doesn't expect me to be normal. The specific supported employment person I'm working with, doesn't expect me to be normal either, though she's convinced I have way worse anxiety than I do, not taking my sensory overload into account nearly enough... though I'm probably going to get a new person for that anyways.
You don't need to keep working with them if you don't want to, though its not just "I stop showing up." You also need to go through applying for help, because its not meant for everyone just disabled people.
However, they don't require diagnoses to help people, at least here, and I've heard that they can even help people pursue the diagnoses they need to work (but only those ones, and them choosing who you see for any diagnostic evaluation) with them monetarily helping.
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If you're only doing things because you 'don't like it' then you won't prove that you should be on disability, or don't deserve disability. It's not just 'I don't feel like trying to work in this society' money, its "I cannot work and have tried".
How does saying I cannot function normally and have been trying to ever since I was a child up until the past couple years where I have been trying to focus more on things I can do rather then all the things that I've tried to overcome only to end up beating myself up because I can't no matter how hard I push myself to....indicate not doing something because I don't like it? What I am saying is if I feel like I am being mistreated by the employees or that its more detrimental than helpful then I should have every right to refuse their services. That is all I was saying not 'oh I don't like that so I won't try.' please try to understand that is not how I feel about this in any way....I am trying to figure out how to live my life with the difficulties I have and I am doing the best I can. I am not trying to be difficult or stubbron, hence the reason I said I would look into it and see if its something that would help.
A state's vocational rehab group is different than going into an agency that tries to help normal people find a job. They're specifically meant for disabled people and specifically are there to help you work around your disabilities as best as you are able. The person I was assigned as my case worker works primarily with people with ASDs. She doesn't expect me to be normal. The specific supported employment person I'm working with, doesn't expect me to be normal either, though she's convinced I have way worse anxiety than I do, not taking my sensory overload into account nearly enough... though I'm probably going to get a new person for that anyways.
Well that does not seem as bad as what I've heard about it, so it very well could be an option and is certainly worth looking into.
You don't need to keep working with them if you don't want to, though its not just "I stop showing up." You also need to go through applying for help, because its not meant for everyone just disabled people.
What would that require? does that mean I cannot explain to them I do not think they are helping me and that do not wish to receive their services anymore. I am sorry it it seems like I'm over-reacting about this specific point but I am very paranoid and uncomfortable about giving other people control over my life....because in my experience I've mostly been damaged by people in such positions and as an adult I really don't want to put up with more of that and regress. So it really is a major concern for me....going to such an establishment for help and than finding I don't have the right to decline their services should I find them unhelpful scares the hell out of me.......
However, they don't require diagnoses to help people, at least here, and I've heard that they can even help people pursue the diagnoses they need to work (but only those ones, and them choosing who you see for any diagnostic evaluation) with them monetarily helping.
Still worth checking out but I have some concerned I certainly need to address before agreeing to something like that. Also if the vocational rehab would be required for disability, I would certainly be ok with not being approved for disability on account of that if my experience proved to be unpleasant.
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I just want to say this about SSI. Many people seem to think they will be approved based on a condition such as autism, ADHD, PDs, etc.. This is not the case. If you are approved it will be on the basis of:
Not being able to perform single and multi step tasks.
Not being able to work without special accommodations.
Not being able to adapt to the usual stresses of a workplace.
Not being able to recognize and react to normal hazards in the work place.
Difficulty dealing with the public, supervisors, and co-workers in an appropriate manner.
You need to approach your application with these things in mind for every step of the process. AS and ADHD won't get you approved, the above will however. So don't apply based on your DX, apply based on what problems you experience. If you can demonstrate the above sufficiently one of the final steps of the process is an evaluation with a state hired psychologist in which you will probably get the diagnosis you were seeking at no charge to you. The most important thing is don't try to be on your best behavior, present yourself as you normally are.
Not being able to perform single and multi step tasks.
Not being able to work without special accommodations.
Not being able to adapt to the usual stresses of a workplace.
Not being able to recognize and react to normal hazards in the work place.
Difficulty dealing with the public, supervisors, and co-workers in an appropriate manner.
You need to approach your application with these things in mind for every step of the process. AS and ADHD won't get you approved, the above will however. So don't apply based on your DX, apply based on what problems you experience. If you can demonstrate the above sufficiently one of the final steps of the process is an evaluation with a state hired psychologist in which you will probably get the diagnosis you were seeking at no charge to you. The most important thing is don't try to be on your best behavior, present yourself as you normally are.
I can see myself struggling with the last three lines of that 5-line list if I ever work full-time.
See what you said before
Trying and refusing is different than not trying. Saying it won't work, saying its not worth the effort to try to get a job, saying those, will get you denied. Saying that you don't want to try to use what is available rather than going directly to SSI make it far less likely that you'll get approved, even if there are reasons that you are not comfortable trying.
Oh, you have the right to decline their services, once you start meeting with someone who don't even have to go through the formal application here. It's just that if you feel you're being mistreated you have to contact the correct people with your complaints rather than just stopping showing up. I know I personally would have a difficult time of that and thus need to know that at the beginning.
It's not that its required, it just shows more of your difficulties and more effort if you've gone through those processes. And it also helps with trying to find a job (and at least the people I've been working with know enough to not throw me into something I can't do, they don't even think I should be doing more than 20 hours of work a week for a least a long time, even if we can find me a job).
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See what you said before
Trying and refusing is different than not trying. Saying it won't work, saying its not worth the effort to try to get a job, saying those, will get you denied. Saying that you don't want to try to use what is available rather than going directly to SSI make it far less likely that you'll get approved, even if there are reasons that you are not comfortable trying.
Oh that wording is pretty bad...I was more trying to say it could be an idea to try, but was not sure I am comfortable with it based on what I've heard, but I can see how you took it that way. hopefully this clears it up because I am trying to be open to advice its just all so overwhelming and frustrating its hard to keep a totally cool head about it. Also my main point was...just if I don't find them helpful I'd want to be free to decline their services and either look for work myself or maybe find a different resources.
Oh, you have the right to decline their services, once you start meeting with someone who don't even have to go through the formal application here. It's just that if you feel you're being mistreated you have to contact the correct people with your complaints rather than just stopping showing up. I know I personally would have a difficult time of that and thus need to know that at the beginning.
Would I have to keep showing up while the complaint is being reviewed, and if for whatever reason they decided it was not valid would I be obligated to continue? I just don't want to walk into a situation like the following: 'No you have to keep accepting our services no matter how detrimental you think it is.' I guess its a bit silly how paranoid I am about this sort of thing.
It's not that its required, it just shows more of your difficulties and more effort if you've gone through those processes. And it also helps with trying to find a job (and at least the people I've been working with know enough to not throw me into something I can't do, they don't even think I should be doing more than 20 hours of work a week for a least a long time, even if we can find me a job).
Alright...I guess the only other concern I have specifically about that is...I mean just based on this misunderstanding of wording what I was trying to express wrong and thus giving off the impression I was having a 'Nope' I'm not even going to try' attitude. Is that i might un-intentionally piss them off and something that upsets me further might be said which would be a pretty bad situation. But maybe I am better at face to face communication and they would be able to see I am not coming in with that sort of persona and will understand I am geniunly frustrated and stressed out about my situation but still trying to make the best of it and do what I can to get some income to live on.
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