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Ruddhil
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16 Jun 2011, 5:54 pm

I'm finding it really hard to cope in my aspie charity. It's like I'm always doing something wrong without doing anything. Everyone hurts me with what they say like I'm doing something terrible when I'm just trying to be nice. It really hurts. I don't know what to do. The other guy there has also got aspergers and he too doesn't understand me so what's the point? If someone who also has the same condition doesn't get you then what's the point in even trying. When I finish here and I go back into an ordinary place of work then I certainly won't cope.

It's like I'm doing something to bother them and I don't know what it is or how it could have possibly come about so what do I do?



Ilka
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16 Jun 2011, 10:07 pm

Continue doing it. I always tell my daughter things do not always work the first time. All the good things in life take time. Give your coworkers and yourself the time to get to know each other better, and things will improve. Because other person has AS it does not mean that person will understand you. Not all people with AS are similar, and there are different levels of AS. Please do not give up. Do this for yourself. Just try to use this experience to grow as a person and gain new abilities. Best wishes.



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18 Jun 2011, 10:17 am

are you working for charity??