Cook, if I'm working creatively on real, healthy, locally sourced food (and cinnamon rolls--I'll make cinnamon rolls from anything).
Fool with my garden (if it's between 50 and 85 degrees out there).
Build stuff.
Mess with my kids, if I'm parenting to my own standards and not someone else's.
Read (and yes, that includes surfing the Internet) and write.
Sit around a fire and talk to my friends.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"