Pabalebo wrote:
by most people's standards, I'm extremely high-functioning, borderline NT.

Riiiiiiiiight. That's what they all say.
If you have autism, you are impaired in the ability to notice, or interpret or appropriately respond to other people's nonverbal signals (Empathy). People around you may be rolling their eyes behind your back at your odd quirks and you would never know, because
that's your disability. Neurotypical people don't always say what they think - certainly not to your face.
I had no idea that I
wasn't NT (although I knew I wasn't particularly good at it), until I was 45 and it wasn't diagnostically confirmed until 49. It wasn't until I seriously began to study the disorder and take plenty of time to review my entire life and my career in broadcasting in light of this new information, that I began to realize just how impaired I had been all those years and how much autism had impacted and influenced every job and personal relationship I ever had.
In any case, a disability is a disability. Autism can be as handicapping in it's own way as a missing limb - in fact, metaphorically speaking, that's pretty much what it is. If assistance is available, don't turn your nose up at it, just because you're convinced you're 'only a
little handicapped.'