Constant Lying

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From saying he never got documentation for a new procedure to lying about resigning.....I can't trust this coworker to be forthright.

I could tolerate his endless bullsh!t stories as long as it didn't impact the job. He tried to get me fired a couple of times by his lies.

You seem to be really fixated on this coworker. I've seen at least one other post alluding to this situation.

I'm sorry this person is stressing you out. Are you okay?

It is very stressful.

This coworker of yours needs to be fired because he sounds like he is a liability and a drama queen.

Well, I can't afford to be with constant liers. It's not a good sign and it's not an asset to any company.

Right and you learn who you can trust.

Whenever an opportunity comes your way, tell your boss about this loser and maybe your boss
will do something about it.

I did before we got out for summer break. It took me two weeks to quit having bad dreams about work....I'm enjoying the rest.

Hot and rainy....Florida living.

I swear, if your liar was female instead of male I'd suspect we worked together and were talking about the same person! My office liar drives me bats too. My ND brain just has trouble with all the not-exactly-truth-functional statements.

They sometimes lose track of their lies and trip up......

They sure do.

I worked with someone like this about off and on at an old job where 75% of the people who worked there were just plain jerks including this girl. The first time she came, I got these vibes that this girl was mean and bossy but then we started getting along. The second time, she appeared to be my friend and had even let me come to her wedding, go to a movie with her and ride home with her while saying that I was like a sister to her and would tell me everything through some of her stories were questionable. Then I started noticing red flags with her:

1. She never seemed interested in attending any of my gatherings and always had excuses about something coming up last minute
2. When another co-worker got hired, she started shutting me out of conversations and if she I tried to join she would snap at me.
3. Whenever I walked into a break area, she and another male co-worker would get up and leave
4. I started hearing from other people at work that she told them that she hated me and didn't talk to me and that we were never friends
5. She started spreading things about me to my other co-workers and her family which were really sick including that I had invited myself to her wedding and showed up uninvited
6. She got several other co-workers at that job to lie about me and make it seem like I was the liar because they didn't like me either.

When I learned this, I stopped talking to her altogether and just avoided her when I could and hoped that she would get fired. Well, a few months after I found out, she took a month's long vacation which was supposed to be two weeks that turned into a month which nearly got her fired. It turns out that she didn't want to be there and lied about why she would quitting saying that she was moving back to her home state with her husband.

That's why I don't make friends at work. Don't poo where you eat so to speak.

I have no contact with Liar Boy outside the job.

I was devastated when I found out that she was lying behind my back but I didn't take it too personally because she had these stories that made no sense. I also figured that anyone who said I was their "Best friend" and that I was like a sister to her and yet made no time for my gatherings that she was not interested. So I just cut her out of my life.

I also felt like I was walking on eggshells around her along with feeling like I could never be myself around her.

Was it stressful to work with her every single day? Yes if not awkward because I was used to talking to her all the time but I just learned to listen to music along prior to her quitting, they moved her to another part of the warehouse and then I didn't see her as much and avoided her as much as I could.

Now after she left, I learned that she had lied all the time to everyone there and had lied about others at that company too including the boss and the guy who would walk out of a break area as soon as I walked in.