Better get hired by Silicon Valley while living elsewhere. With the lockdowns, Computer Science engineers smoothly switched to remote work and part of it may remain afterwards.
Anyway, secure a job before you move. From what my husband says about Santa Clara, people either live in "tiny cabins with even tinier gardens" or have pain in the ass of commuting. Living there is absurdly expensive.
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Let's not confuse being normal with being mentally healthy.
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