RE: Kids w/ Classic Autism, PDD-NOS & Speech Delays
Sooo....how's it going? Or shouldn't we ask?
We've concluded my DS has some sensory issue about toileting, as he is mostly trained but still prefers to wet his trousers than use the toilet sometimes. It has been suggested he likes the feeling of a full bladder, which is a bit hard to do anything about!
It's going I guess...haven't really gotten very far yet. We put him on the toilet if he starts grunting and he's pooped in the toilet from that, though I am not sure if this counts.
Well it's only been a week but I can say this, yeah, sure people do complain about the autism services here but at least the services exist! I am in the process of choosing my insurance provider and spend time on the phone with reps from each plan making sure my son will be covered for things like speech and ABA.
One thing I have learned is that even if a state has a mandate that says autism must be covered, if the health insurance plan is self-insured (as in, the employer pays the costs) then they do not have to follow state mandates - only federal ones.
The reps I spoke with were quite sympathetic and helpful and my son will have the necessary coverage. He has an appointment for an assessment at my old elementary school in a couple of weeks and we will also have to have him medically evaluated again in the US.
Sooo....how's it going? Or shouldn't we ask?
We've concluded my DS has some sensory issue about toileting, as he is mostly trained but still prefers to wet his trousers than use the toilet sometimes. It has been suggested he likes the feeling of a full bladder, which is a bit hard to do anything about!
It's going I guess...haven't really gotten very far yet. We put him on the toilet if he starts grunting and he's pooped in the toilet from that, though I am not sure if this counts.
I would count it. At least he's not trying to avoid the potty.
My younger son still has to be reminded to poop in the potty, but he'll at least do it now instead of holding it in when someone makes him go to the bathroom. I think that some kids have to remain on a potty schedule a long time. I keep telling him that when he's in kindergarten, no one is going to remind him to sit on the potty. Thank goodness he starts in 2013.
The ABA therapist will be back tomorrow after a long vacation, so I'll have her keep working with my younger son on the potty thing.
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My younger son still has to be reminded to poop in the potty, but he'll at least do it now instead of holding it in when someone makes him go to the bathroom. I think that some kids have to remain on a potty schedule a long time. I keep telling him that when he's in kindergarten, no one is going to remind him to sit on the potty. Thank goodness he starts in 2013.
The ABA therapist will be back tomorrow after a long vacation, so I'll have her keep working with my younger son on the potty thing.
My wife said that today, when he started grunting, my son actually brought her to the bathroom so he could sit on the toilet! Nothing came out, though.
First week of school for my boy last week and it has gone fantastically and he is loving it. In retrospect Kindergarten prior to that has not really been that great, he was OK there, but he gets a lot more out of being in the special needs unit where he is now, where they can cater to him best. He gets to do a lot of enjoyable things there too, swimming three days a week, horse riding once a week!
Anyway, one interesting thing is the teachers have been very impressed at how compliant and settled he is in the environment, lots of things like sitting at a table when he's requested, making eye contact, being able to self regulate. These things collectively make him 'available' for learning, and they were developed in part through his ABA programme and other work we have put in with him over the last 2 years.
We have schemed and cobbled things together so that our main therapist now works in the unit as his teacher aide (i.e. funded by the Govt) and also does ABA with him there in that environment and follows the programme and goals set by the ABA lead that we privately pay for. The head of the SN is all for it after coming and seeing him doing ABA at our house, i.e. seeing what it really entails.
He also got to go to his mainstream i.e. normal class, although he is in the SN unit, all the kids in there (14 kids in the unit with a range of disabilities) have a regular class they belong to, some of them go to the mainstream class to do some of their work. The school makes a big effort to get the other students to understand and be inclusive of the kids, and its part of what they are taught and evidently works really well.
Couldn't be happier for now ![]()
Anyway, one interesting thing is the teachers have been very impressed at how compliant and settled he is in the environment, lots of things like sitting at a table when he's requested, making eye contact, being able to self regulate. These things collectively make him 'available' for learning, and they were developed in part through his ABA programme and other work we have put in with him over the last 2 years.
We have schemed and cobbled things together so that our main therapist now works in the unit as his teacher aide (i.e. funded by the Govt) and also does ABA with him there in that environment and follows the programme and goals set by the ABA lead that we privately pay for. The head of the SN is all for it after coming and seeing him doing ABA at our house, i.e. seeing what it really entails.
He also got to go to his mainstream i.e. normal class, although he is in the SN unit, all the kids in there (14 kids in the unit with a range of disabilities) have a regular class they belong to, some of them go to the mainstream class to do some of their work. The school makes a big effort to get the other students to understand and be inclusive of the kids, and its part of what they are taught and evidently works really well.
Couldn't be happier for now
My younger son still has to be reminded to poop in the potty, but he'll at least do it now instead of holding it in when someone makes him go to the bathroom. I think that some kids have to remain on a potty schedule a long time. I keep telling him that when he's in kindergarten, no one is going to remind him to sit on the potty. Thank goodness he starts in 2013.
The ABA therapist will be back tomorrow after a long vacation, so I'll have her keep working with my younger son on the potty thing.
My wife said that today, when he started grunting, my son actually brought her to the bathroom so he could sit on the toilet! Nothing came out, though.
That is wonderful!
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www.freevideosforautistickids.com is my website with hundreds of links and thousands of educational videos for kids, parents and educators. Son with high-functioning classic autism, aged 7, and son with OCD/Aspergers, aged 4. I love my boys!
Anyway, one interesting thing is the teachers have been very impressed at how compliant and settled he is in the environment, lots of things like sitting at a table when he's requested, making eye contact, being able to self regulate. These things collectively make him 'available' for learning, and they were developed in part through his ABA programme and other work we have put in with him over the last 2 years.
We have schemed and cobbled things together so that our main therapist now works in the unit as his teacher aide (i.e. funded by the Govt) and also does ABA with him there in that environment and follows the programme and goals set by the ABA lead that we privately pay for. The head of the SN is all for it after coming and seeing him doing ABA at our house, i.e. seeing what it really entails.
He also got to go to his mainstream i.e. normal class, although he is in the SN unit, all the kids in there (14 kids in the unit with a range of disabilities) have a regular class they belong to, some of them go to the mainstream class to do some of their work. The school makes a big effort to get the other students to understand and be inclusive of the kids, and its part of what they are taught and evidently works really well.
Couldn't be happier for now
That is a great accomplishment!
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www.freevideosforautistickids.com is my website with hundreds of links and thousands of educational videos for kids, parents and educators. Son with high-functioning classic autism, aged 7, and son with OCD/Aspergers, aged 4. I love my boys!
http://www.freevideosforautistickids.co ... ulary.html
I just wanted to tell you all that I've been working on the speech and vocabulary section of my free website to make stuff easier to find. There are hundreds of hours of speech videos accessible by following the links on the page above.
I'm still working on this section of my website, but there is a whole lot of speech material on the site already, and its a lot easier to find stuff than before.
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www.freevideosforautistickids.com is my website with hundreds of links and thousands of educational videos for kids, parents and educators. Son with high-functioning classic autism, aged 7, and son with OCD/Aspergers, aged 4. I love my boys!
Hmm, son threw a 1-in-6-months tantrum this morning, lots of headbutts, hitting me, headbutting the floor, wailing etc, which was particularly uncool as one of the therapists was coming.
I spent the rest of the morning racking my brain about the sequence of the morning and when it started and why, because it came on pretty fast and eventually I realised he must have worked out when I was getting him dressed, that that meant he was not going to school today!
I spent the rest of the morning racking my brain about the sequence of the morning and when it started and why, because it came on pretty fast and eventually I realised he must have worked out when I was getting him dressed, that that meant he was not going to school today!
Probably so. I sometimes get tantrums when my older son doesn't want to do something hard. It used to be handwriting practice; when I'd try to work with him on it, it would bring on a meltdown. He's had a couple of meltdowns lately when I've tried to get him a certain computerized reading comprehension program (Headsprout). I either have to do the program with him and offer him a reward or have him use a different program. My younger son threw a fit with the ABA therapist the other day because he got punished (no game time) for talking back/refusing to do his work three times.
I don't think that my kids are trying to be manipulative; this therapy stuff is just hard for them and sometimes makes anxiety levels go up during and right before therapy time.
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www.freevideosforautistickids.com is my website with hundreds of links and thousands of educational videos for kids, parents and educators. Son with high-functioning classic autism, aged 7, and son with OCD/Aspergers, aged 4. I love my boys!
Maybe you interrupted his routine, but these are difficult things to be understood.
Hi everyone, I have been to busy to post lately but I just wanted to say that my son's receptive language seems to be improving. He now follows instructions (close the door, come with me, etc). I am not sure if this is the result of being in an all-English environment or if it's too early for that to have much effect.
That's good to hear. I imagine it's more that he's just growing and changing more than the language as my own is just starting to understand/cooperate when I ask him to do simple things. In addition I think mine has ODD though, so unfortunately even though I know he understands he still likes to make easy things difficult too.
I'm sure that it is helping to be in an all-English environment. Also, his childcare situation is different, and that can have a big impact on language.
A mom of a child with classic autism and profound mental retardation borrowed some alphabet videos from me once. The child was five and only knew three words. However, as soon as he started watching the videos, he learned his fourth word, the letter "A." The mother had been restricting his TV use, thinking TV was bad for him. However, just a change in approach helped right away. He was already in special ed at school and speech therapy. (The family moved away, taking the videos with them, so I don't know how he's doing now.)
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www.freevideosforautistickids.com is my website with hundreds of links and thousands of educational videos for kids, parents and educators. Son with high-functioning classic autism, aged 7, and son with OCD/Aspergers, aged 4. I love my boys!
I think it's the result of the English environment but also of the chid's growth.
My son is under evaluation for his speech and speech therapist found that his receptive language is improving. He also knows words I didn't teach him. I'm sure he was really behind an year ago in receptive language.
I think that at some point they have a fast evolution.
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