Hi there,
I really feel for you. Anxiety is a terrible feeling and when it got too much for my son who is 16, we took him out of school. Well, offered him the choice to finish online if he wanted. He was completely relieved.
This is a great alternative if they can work on their own, online or through mail. He will graduate at his own pace with a Diploma! Probably before his class of 2011.
They also offer many classes in art, photography, computer, the list goes on. If this could be an option, search online schools.
He will probably go to college with a combination of night classes and online programs.
He still has a social life too, involved in quite a few things.
It is a great alternative for us.
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