I'm new to this as my son was just diagnosed 2 weeks ago. I am obsessing in order to cope. My husband appreciates all my research and the help I am finding, but he often has to remind me to "get out of the spectrum" (as he likes to say - like I am paralyzed by a blinding light or something). It's tough not to obsess because we have been in crisis mode and my son was hospitalized. I hope that I am not speaking too soon, but today I finally am starting to feel that the worst is over. Thank goodness for the internet and sites like this.