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you know what makes me sad,
if she did get away with removing me from our child's life
with as many hours as I spend teaching him and helping him grow,
where I know she wouldn't personally spend nearly as much love and care and time,
he will suffer educationally (to say the least) for it.
and she don't care, alls that matters to her is the control,
and making her new boyfriend happy, where our child should be none of his business,
she puts his needs and desires first, I never asked that from her our whole relationship,
in fact I was proud of her when she did put them first,
now I do not know what to think of her anymore, except disappointed.

I just had a thought, from my sons point of view,
she must really hate him allot to want to strip me out of his life,
when we love and care for and about and need each other so much,
what kind of mother only thinks of her self just to be in control?
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In many ways I want to get pissed at her new boyfriend for him keeping sticking his nose into our business dealing with our child, but at the same time I realize its for the most part because of what
she tells him to gain his support, but in the same hand I NEVER prejudged her ex-husband when I
was with her, even when she tried to tell me negative things for support from me, instead I gone to
get to know the man personally, after all it was his children I was caring for as well, not just hers,
and I know when it comes to EX's the story's can and do often times get distorted, but thats me, not everyone is willing to not be judgemental until all the facts are in, most people just want to believe
there new mate and be supportive from the start, but then again I can and do understand
that he had lost his last wife to her ex-husband, this would make any man timid and leery about
ex-relationships, but he is still being overly judgemental and out of place and thoughtless
and like her, without empathy, in a way I feel like he is trying to take it out on me for what
has happened to him with his ex-wife as if I was some kind of threat trying to take her away from him.

I got to meet and talk with another one of my EX's co-workers today out side the post-office,
It seems most every one she knows and works with is either neutral or disagrees with her,
it seems that if she was so much in the right then they would not even give me the time of day,
I would think that if she realized all this that perhaps she just might not be in the right with
what she is trying to do, but then again, she is stubborn as a goat and as thick headed as one to.

If she's had so many broken relationships, she must be making some kind of serious errors.