Kinda OT-Bad News for Me

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Kim I'm so sorry. I don't even know you very well, but my heart sunk and I found myself saying "oh no" when I first read your post.

You are a very very strong woman, you can tell that by your posts on this board. You may not feel this way right now, but I know you can get thru this and eventually find the happiness you deserve.

Ya know, it doesn't feel like it now, but in the future you may look back and go, wow, he really did do me a favor. Sometimes bad things like this happen to us, because there's something in life that we need to learn, and you will never learn it being in this marriage.

I really hope the best for you and pop!

Lainie

thanks, we've talked a lot and I went to my therapist today. I'm feeling better in that weird, hopeless way. It's a wake up call, for sure. He's burnt out on things that I've been burying for a long time too. It's just that was attached to this belief that what we had the best option.
I'm certainly aware that I don't want our current situation going on. I had been making a lot changes, just not enough and maybe too late for "us".