lonelymom wrote:
My adult son is also obsessed with food, and he is not on any medication. Often his only subject of interest is what he is going to cook, or what he has, will, wants to eat. He sits and watches cooking shows all weekend. He weighs about 400 lbs now, this does not help his social life.
Could you perhaps manage to use his cooking interest to help him? Perhaps gear it to researching healthy good tasting food and alternatives to junk food? It is never easy with adult children, they have to be on side with it too or it just won't work. Maybe allow one "bad" day a week, and 6 "better ones" So he can plan all week for what he is going to cook on his "off" day!
It just seems like there should be a way through education that you can retrain his cooking to be benificial not distructive! Are there any healthy cooking classes in your area? Maybe study things like the diabetic diet? Really try to hit home with him that if things don't change soon, he is going to have a heart attack or develop diabetes, then he won't be able to eat any of his favourite foods ever again.
Also, real "gormet" cooking usually has such controled portions, it allows for a lot of "cooking" but not very much actual "eating". It may be that the portions he cooks in are what need to be adjusted, not "what" he is cooking as much.
It is not easy dealing with weight problems.
Can I ask, does he live with you? Who buys his groceries?