Something I've noticed about this forum

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One thing that does bother me is when people refer to their AS children or spouses as "my aspie." I don't mean to offend anyone who has said this, but it really bugs me. People with Asperger's are not pets (or objects, as the OP mentioned)!

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Thanks Goku, I do appreciate it

I don't know but it sounds like a good idea

I an understand how it rubs you the wrong way,I am not sure if I have done it or not...
oh no, I just caught myself reading over another thread! Something to consider when writting, as I don't mean it as if he is "property"!

I think though, that these same people would say "my husband" or "my son" in lieu of "my aspie" funny how that does not sound nearly as "possessive". I think it would be better to say "my husband who has aspergers" or "my son with aspergers". Just it is so long it gets shortened to "my aspie". Then again why do people need to constantly refer to their family members DX? Why can't they just say "my son" "my husband" and from what they are saying, most people would understand that this individual that they speak of, has AS?

I think other people use it almost as a term of endearment perhaps? Instead of saying "my sweetie" or something else, they substitute in "apsie", it is kind of strange. However, on the other board I see people refer to themselves as "aspies" all the time or other people as such "hey, are there any Aspies here with...." I think this is partly responsible too.

Too each his own, sometimes I think everyone here just dissects the "little things" way too much!

EarthCalling, I have also found your opinions/advice very helpful. Thank you.

Wow. I am going to be one of those moms who come post a question and wait for an answer. I do not have the time to read everything or to post back comments. I will try to do updates as I can, but I barely feel like I am keeping my nose above water on most days. I think this forum is wonderful. There are some great people here and we can definitely all learn from each other. Please forgive me ahead of time because I know I will mess up and say stupid things and I have no clue about forum ettequite (sp?). Sure wish I could visit with all of you face to face! *sigh*

update: trying new med for son, trying to hook up with advocates to help with school, figuring out how to educate family, trying to work up the nerve to make an appointment with Dr. for myself (suspecting ADD, and not coping well at all right now )

I wish the best for all of you!