CRD wrote:
Jakes speech has alway come and gone. So we hold on to all he's every said. One of the best ones was we were visting our family before the Airforce moved us over seas. Jake had just turned 3 right before he was dx We're in a video store and some older boys were standing in frount of us in line and Jake realy wanted them to look at him. So after jumping and wiggling trying to get the big kids to play with him he gave up and yelled "I lie you stupit gettis "
He would watch WWE with this his dad on fridays and Britcoms on PBS with me on saturdays I guesse the two got mixed in his head.
Last week Jake was upset that his dad and brother went to boy scouts with out him so he spent the night yelling "jerks" at the door. It was the only thing he had said that week . I don't think any other mother would be as happy to hear that her husband and older son were jerks.
My 7 yr old daughter has Aspergers and of calls myself, the teachers or well anyone that makes her mad, "big stupid meanines". She's always been quite verbal even though her verbal skills were a bit delayed (I have 3 girls and no boys but, my other two girls both were speaking quite well by 3 years old where as Miranda (my 7 yr old) didn't really start speaking more than one or two word phrases until she was almost 4)
But, now at 7 years old, she of course gets in trouble for this especially at school. So, while I'm sure your very grateful to hear him speak, saying thinks like "jerk" may well get him into trouble later. I use social stories and a lot of re-enactment to help Miranda understand that calling ppl names isn't nice. I also read somewhere that a lot of autistic verbal kids will curse horribly and a really good way to deal with that is to teach them alternate words to use in leu of the curse word. For example, instead of saying, "what the hell?!" In front of my kids, I now say, "what the Hello Kitty!" Kinda like the commercial for orbit gum where they saying, " shut the front door, French toast" and various others instead of some quite nasty curse words.
My kids have actually really started to like those funny words instead of enjoying ruffling my feathers with the ugly ones (which I've found all kids autistic or not enjoy doing lol). But, I can totally get how even hearing the word "jerk" from your 3 yr old would be quite exciting. It shows he's listening and just the verbalizing in and if itself is probably quite amazing.