I have a lot of people here to be thankful to, as well. Plus a whole bunch over at Aspies for Freedom, which is where I posted before I found this place (a nice forum, too, just that parenting board isn't nearly as active).
So much of what we need to do with our kids is un-chartered territory, and there are no right or wrong answers. It helps so much to hear a wide range of experiences, even when none of the answers seem quite right, because it is all needed to help intuit that one unique answer for the one unique child.
Thanks for starting this thread, bjtoa.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).