Double dose of bothersome behaviors.

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If it isn't the 10 year old being rude that stresses my mom out (The 10 year old has a rude tone and says things rudely and thinks she knows the answer) Example she'll say something and no we'll say the answer is X and she'll defend being right although she IS wrong. Also today when in the store I agreed with mom a shirt was too small and she gave me a glaring eye (I didn't DARE tell mom it would have equaled yelling/getting mad at the 10 year old). The 9 year old (She just turned 9 BTW) still whines and mom is like only babies whine etc. Mom says next time she whines she's going to spank her "giving her something to whine about." As mom put it. Everything is a whine behavior I WANT PIZZA! *whine tone* I WANT TO GO OUTSIDE *whiney tone* insert something a child would say toy,food,desert,shopping anything it's *insert whiney tone*

I can tell this rude behavior and whiney behavior from my two little sisters are really upsetting my mom. Honestly looking in (as the older sis and a Psychology major I see issues) They stress her out she can't wait to get back to work Monday!! Summer vacation is HELL (threats to be put in a daycare during this time) and not to mention (while arguments haven't happend in over 6 months) As the year is winding down I clearly remember the 10 year old tossing the I hate you card/Why did you adopt me card and such. and Mom has said if you feel that way leave. (She has stated this to ME the 24 year old ADULT and at times to the 10 year old!! !) HOLY CHIRST TALK ABOUT SOME ISSUES IMO!! !! Any tips/views would be appreciated thank you fellow parents.

Tips? How about this?

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When everything around you is crazy, all you can do is rely on yourself to make the best decision in each circumstance. It's impossible to figure out what everybody else wants, and often they don't know themselves. If you can stay calm and make rational choices then your future regrets will be minor. If you get swept into other peoples emotion and irrationality then your mistakes and regrets may be bigger. Just my opinion.

Have you shared your thoughts with your Mom based on your education? It might be awkward since a parent could resist advice about parenting from her own child, but maybe she knows there's a problem and would welcome the discussion.

Do you think there's an autism issue with your sisters or your mom or is this just a general parenting issue? (sorry if you've described this in another thread)

Good luck.

I believe all of this is normal.