Welcome. We have many parents who share the feelings and needs you've expressed.
Otherwise, I'm not sure what to talk about. We tend to have issue based discussions, with a question and an answer. Although, of course, the answer may or may not apply: ferreting out the proper solution on the internet is often a process of reading between the lines and relying on instinct. Still, it all gets everyone thinking and sometimes you get one of those "aha" moments that really changes things for the better in your family.
Stick around and hopefully you'll read some things that can help you and your wonderful child, as well.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).