Hello, my name is Lucas Carvalho (Oak in Portuguese). I've had Asperger's for as long as I can remember, and there's been both good and bad moments. I've been recovering from most of the symptoms recently, and my school has recently invited me to be a motivational speaker for parents of children with AS. While the details are still being set up, I'd like to say a quick message here-
Time makes things better. I've met so many people with ASD, ADHD, and other conditions... Most of them improved over time. I understand you may be going through a rough patch, but hang in there.
Also, I've documented my life since November 15 2010. In the site below, I posted how I dealt with some situations, and even an original essay on my personal take on what AS is. The link is on my signature.