I don't get these guys

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http://mywifeisabitch.net/

I was just surfing the internet and I stumbled upon this site. Be warned, some of it is very graphic. I do not understand these guys logic whatsoever. How do these guys solve any of their problems at all with their wives. Some of what they write is unintelligible. It seems like these guys behave almost like the women at aspartners.

I think some of them need to have the police called upon. I fear for their wives' safety. I have the feeling some of these guys are ticking time bombs waiting to happen. I do have a question. Why do these guys seem to lack social skills, social graces, uncouth and seem like neanderthals and yet people seem to say aspies lack social skills? They talk about jobs they have. How do they get their jobs with their lack of social skills yet we aspies seem to have so many problems? Why is this?

Odds are they show none of that in real life. NT men are very good at boxing up parts of themselves. One box vents on the Internet in extreme ways that releases the negative energy. Odds are they don't mean much of what they say, but saying it takes the anger and frustration out so it won't accidentally get released where it might do damage.

I strongly recommend not reading these places. I never even opened the link. It will suck the life out of you to watch other people vent; social structure has long been designed to give people space to do that privately among those likely to have the same needs, and away from those it could hurt. If it isn't the room you need to be in, don't walk into it.

There are police units designed to ferret out the seriously dangerous stuff. Leave it to the professionals.

The word "b***h" to degrade female people needs to disappear from the lexicon. (Duh.) There's all kinds of garbage out there really. No use sifting through it!

I laughed my ass off when I clicked the page. The first post was titled "My wife is still a b***h" and he ranted for a paragraph or so. Granted, I didn't read very much, aside from "My wife needs to suck my dick, then she'll be less of a b***h" but the page was funny, and if those guys really are serious...they don't realize how stupid they look.

Apparently these men have marital problems.

However usually when a woman won't stop "yapping" she is trying to address a problem that her husband won't acknowledge or help her solve and there is a lack of communication on the husband's part.

If he would say something like "I'm aware of this. I need to think about it for a while, but we'll sit down tomorrow at (whatever time) and try to work it out," she will usually be satisfied. However he has to make good on this meeting.

Some women buy a lot of things that men think are useless, and they might actually be useless or might not be. If she bought a jar opener it's probably because she cooks the meals and has trouble opening jars. I believe a couple should handle finances together. I find that in households where the couple did not handle finances together, the person who is not involved in the finances is usually out of touch with the cost of living and this causes fights and accusations of poor money management. If it's a single income house hold then the "bread winner" should give a personal allowance to the "home maker" separate from that which is to go to household items.

Then some women really are b!tches.

I found the website funny. The title made me think of the song "Barbie is a b***h" parody of Barbie Girl.

It sounds like the guy isn't happy with his wife so he decided to make a blog about it. Then he decided he is going to leave her. The site is funnier than ASPartners because how many women on there complain saying "My (partner) is an ass/a b***h?"

To answer your question, most people use the internet as a venting playground. They go online because they are anonymous so they post their vents, things they would never say in real life and post it online where the whole world can read it and not ever know who they are. Also ever heard of "internet Asperger's?" It's a silly term because most people go online and have worse social skills because they don't use them. They say whatever they want, offend people more, they are more honest with themselves, they misread tones in people posts or misinterpret what they read, they also fail to understand smileys or humor and miss sarcasm. Most people who post online are different people in real life than they are online. There is real life behavior and internet behavior so they have split personalities. Also people who are mad in real life like if they had a bad day at work or if they are having other problems in real life, they go online and take it out on others by being jerks to people online.

The man that made that blog, he is obviously unhappy in his marriage so he goes online and vents about it in his blog. But it seems like the place isn't very active because he has a very few blogs about his crappy marriage.