Well, I have been having to deal with a Guardian Ad Litem for a couple months now since the above post,
My Ex looked shocked when I requested one, actually she requested one but had it in such a way
that if I accepted I would have had to give up our child, so in court I said I agreed to one,
The judge appointed one, god I have been having to jump through the hoops to make things work,
I had to go down and get DXed (Aspergers), and get an Parenting evaluation (passed with flying colors) and stuff,
it seems 2/3 of the Guardians investigations has been on me, but I think my Ex has been caught in a couple lies,
where I may fumble around but I am horrible at lying so I tell it how it is.
but all in all by the looks of it I am going to win what I want, the Guardian Ad Litem is going to
help Mediate a parenting plan between me and my Ex, but if she refuses we goto court and fight it out,
but by what I understand what the guardian wants the courts generally make happen anyways 90% of the time,
which means I get what I wanted to begin with weather my Ex likes it or not, equal and joint legal and physical custody,
man I had to kiss a lot of ass to get this and its still not over,
by what the Guardian has been in a way telling me is what I been hoping would be noticed,
and that is my bond with my child, the Guardian seemed to like that ALLOT, plus I been showing a HUGE interest in learning better and better parenting
even though I am damn good at it already, and also, my child seems to listen to me and he does what I ask of him.
Plus my Ex depends on her boyfriends to help keep her financially stable, but her relationships rarely last 3 years at most,
where as I can take care of my own.
and I been sticking to my guns about a shared and joint custody and a willingness to work jointly with parenting,
and I been on my best behaviour, its starting to really be looking up.
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Last edited by aspergian_mutant on 29 Mar 2008, 7:53 pm, edited 9 times in total.
21 Feb 2008, 7:55 pm
