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Shymaa mmm
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02 Oct 2018, 5:23 pm

i cant help my son am not even able to :cry:



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02 Oct 2018, 5:36 pm

what does he need help with?


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02 Oct 2018, 5:42 pm

Regardless, I have no doubt he loves you more than life itself. There is nothing that compares to a mother's love.


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02 Oct 2018, 6:46 pm

He is suffering from school bully tow days ago he trys to suicide



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02 Oct 2018, 6:56 pm

I hope you are seeking professional help and supervising him closely. don't give up- he needs you and you can help



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02 Oct 2018, 7:08 pm

My heart goes out to you, I am sorry this is happening to your son. As Hanna suggested you can help by seeking professional help.


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02 Oct 2018, 7:11 pm

I wish Face of Boo was here right now. He knows Arabic.



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02 Oct 2018, 7:23 pm

I was thinking along those lines. I know Face of Boo has spent time in Egypt, perhaps he knows the culture enough to give her some suggestions so she doesn't feel so helpless.


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02 Oct 2018, 7:31 pm

He would help greatly.

Maybe I'll try to send something in Arabic.

الانتحار.عمره؟ أنا آسف أن البلطجة قد دفعته إلى التفكير فيعمره؟ أنا آسف أن البلطجة قد دفعته إلى التفكير في مرحباً. أنا آسف لأنك تواجه مشكلة مع ابنك. كم



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02 Oct 2018, 7:35 pm

I don't know any Arabic. I Google translated.

I said "Hi there. I am sorry you are having trouble with your son. How old is he? I'm sorry the bullying has led him to consider suicide."

Then maybe she can write something in Arabic, and I can get it Google Translated. Then I can respond. I wonder if this will work.



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03 Oct 2018, 2:26 am

Morning guys
Thanks alot for responding i can understand English , my son is 10 years old, I always support him and keep telling him that he is not alone,
Yes Hana Iam looking for a professional therapist but its not easy to find someone good in my country, l go gogl and read about spragr but am not so sure if he's sprgar or not.



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03 Oct 2018, 2:34 am

My son can't socialize
He don't know what to say , he can't play with them he don't know how to do,
He can't play football like other kids,
He can't merge with other kids, however he's smart and he always gets highe mark in school.



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03 Oct 2018, 6:01 am

Shymaa mmm wrote:
My son can't socialize
He don't know what to say , he can't play with them he don't know how to do,
He can't play football like other kids,
He can't merge with other kids, however he's smart and he always gets highe mark in school.


I'm really sorry to hear that, if it's hard to find a therapist there, can you talk to his teachers there?

Enrol into a new one, private school? Or alternatively, does your government allow homeschooling?

We changed three preschools/kindergartens for my daughter, and now it's finally OK.

This is aspergers test for children:
https://psychology-tools.com/cast

The Egyptian Autistic society:
http://www.egyptautism.com/
https://www.facebook.com/autismeg/


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03 Oct 2018, 6:11 am

Please don't be sorry!
I talked to his teachers again and again but useless ,
Yes homeschooling is certified in my country,
Thanks for the links u sent ,
I am afraid that homeschooling would make him away from life experiences ??



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03 Oct 2018, 7:00 am

I feel you should encourage his scholarship. I know you want him to hang out with the other kids.

Perhaps he can join a club at school which has other smart kids in it.

I would encourage him in his studies, and make sure you keep the teachers and other authorities aware of the bullying. If they are to do something, they must know you care.

Above all, encourage him in his studies. Does he study the Koran, too?

As he gets older, things will get better. There will be more kids like him.

Always tell him you are proud of him for being smart.