for awhile, the docs tried to say that son had ODD & conduct disorder. of course, this was all pre-dx..... turns out that there were so many things son didn't understand. so many social cues he misinterpreted. he was scared & felt that no one understood him, nor liked him. it took awhile to turn him around. thankfully, he's pretty straightened out now. CBT helped , as did moving him to a smaller therapeutic school, and getting him on the right combination of medications.