Just to find a girlfriend should not be your primary motivation to do anything. It WILL leave you lonely, broken, and possibly stuck in situations that you just plain don't want to be in (such as studying philosophy). Finding our soul mate is something that just happens. It takes TIME for it to occur. I know a lot of people who did things similar to what you're doing and they have wound up bitter and lonely. Seriously. Take a step back, look into yourself, re-evalutate your life, and re-prioritize your goals.
As for philosophy. I think it's great for Aspies. Aspies tend to have a much greater capactiy for upper level thinking and logic; and can come up with ideas that no one else could even dream of. I've never heard of philosophy ever being used to try to treat AS (sidnote, THERE IS NO CURE. It's not something you can just "get over". Why not try to learn how to harness it and work with it try to create something positive from it?).
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