I am interested in why so many people believe there is only two options in this regard?
On one hand you have a group of people who apparently believe war is inevitable and ultimately somehow 'good' in the grand sceme of things, and on the other you have a group who see it as aberant and 'bad' and refuse to accept any 'valid' reason for violence.
Now, surely any sane person is not actually pro war in general, it goes against the grain to actually want death and destruction to be our first recourse in dispute resolution? Likewise to not defend yourself against an attack is equally absurd after you have tried all other methods to resolve the conflict.
Given that I at least see things this way there are situation by situation many different rational stances to take?
Personally I think it is natural for a group to defend itself and to maintain a basic ability to do so, however I think wars of aggression are morally indefensible, to actively leave your own country and attack another? well as soon as you do this you are to my mind in all likelyhood and quite simply in the wrong. Having said this if your neighbour who is not the aggressor calls upon you to help them defend themselves you may well find yourself in the 'wrong' to turn away and leave them to the mercy of their attacker.
I consider this to be a generally 'pacifist' stance but not purist in any sense, I have been around the block enough times and gotten into enough stoushes to know that some people cannot be reasoned with and to allow them free reign is to court dissaster, Hitler had to be stopped [the agressor], the rapist my flatmate stopped with several blows of a garden tool had to be stopped [the aggressor], the partner beater who besieged the same flat had to be repelled by myself [the agressor], this I concede to be just and right, but the extreme absolutism of the 'hawks' and 'doves' argument? come on? it is little more than the rhetoric of those who have made their fortunes and careers from warfare right or wrong - always managing to 'spin' it so they look like heroes not bullies
peace j
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Just because we can does not mean we should.
What vision is left? And is anyone asking?
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