can you people tell me something (and don't lie)?

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28 Dec 2007, 3:55 am

Look, why does this society seem to VALUE negative characteristics in people, such as dishonesty, selfishness, egoism, apathy, stupidity, group think, while SCORNING people who speak of positive values such as honesty, loyalty, selflessness, integrity, respect, determination, drive, intelligence, and individuality? Don't make it an AS/NT thing because it ISN'T. Why do so many people, including many but not all of the people here, so strongly believe that a cohesive and tolerant, functioning society is evil, or that dysfunction is "normal" and should be valued? I want an honest answer. Don't say "because ignorance feels good", a crack head is still a crack head no matter how the crack makes him feel.



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28 Dec 2007, 4:03 am

That's one of the many mysteries of life, but my guess is rebellion from the old ways.



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28 Dec 2007, 4:56 am

That's funny because my only clear thought about the qu was that it's always been like this, since the Neolithic anyway!

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And that people have always been talking about the old days as if they were better. :)

I think that it's posssible that society values those things because a significant proportion of its most sensitive and gifted members have been half out of it on food opiates ( in wheat and dairy) since the stone age, and a much greater part of population on a powerful painkiller since the 1600s when use of sugar became widespread.
It's well known that pain is useful; it tells you what is a bad idea. The trouble with painkillers is that you don't notice when you do yourself harm, ( of any kind) and that on top of "opiate-similar" effects for many is a recipe for disaster.

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28 Dec 2007, 5:01 am

snake321 wrote:
Look, why does this society seem to VALUE negative characteristics in people, such as dishonesty, selfishness, egoism, apathy, stupidity, group think, while SCORNING people who speak of positive values such as honesty, loyalty, selflessness, integrity, respect, determination, drive, intelligence, and individuality?


Because it's easier.

If people supported things like intelligence, determination and integrity, they'd have to do more - they value negative characteristics because then they're allowed to have negative characteristics, and do less.

In other words, people like laziness because it lets them be lazy.



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28 Dec 2007, 5:06 am

EvilZak wrote:
In other words, people like laziness because it lets them be lazy.

Why would they want to be "lazy" though ? Sounds a bit circular to me! :lol: Why would they want to avoid doing more?
By the way, the word "lazy" is just a value judgement about the behaviour of people who won't/don't do what you, or other people, think they should be doing.

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I suggest that the reason they might be "lazy" is the same as for being "selfish" ( as in not take other people into consideration?) is that are numbed and spaced out.

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28 Dec 2007, 5:09 am

Negative characteristics may be interesting to people.
Positive characteristics? Possibly a mix of jealousy and disbelief.



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28 Dec 2007, 5:13 am

Sapphires wrote:
Negative characteristics may be interesting to people.
Positive characteristics? Possibly a mix of jealousy and disbelief.

People would only be jealous or disbelieving if they were already all those "bad things" listed above. Otherwise they would be neither jealous nor disbelieving.

Negative characteristics are interesting only to people who experience them. So is that it, the reason why society values " bad behaviour"etc etc ? That most people behave like that most of the time?

Sorry, Snake321, :? :oops: I thought your question was why do people behave in these ways, as if actually might reasonably be expected to live in a very different way! :(

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28 Dec 2007, 5:53 am

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That's one of the many mysteries of life, but my guess is rebellion from the old ways.


The "old ways" valued homophobia and racism, don't tell me you've forgotten this?

I think that people have to have an outlet, for reasons that change from person to person people just need to explode at somebody. Unless they have some other outlet like art, meditation or some other way to deal with it.


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28 Dec 2007, 6:49 am

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In other words, people like laziness because it lets them be lazy.


LUKE: Is the dark side stronger?
YODA: No...no...no. Quicker, easier, more seductive.
LUKE: But how am I to know the good side from the bad?
YODA: You will know. When you are calm, at peace. Passive.



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28 Dec 2007, 7:01 am

Because it's carryover from cavemen days, when everyone needed to kill the other person in order to survive, the hind reptilian brain took forefront and the ego became an out of control beast ruled by greed, lust and power with a vivid taste for blood. It's the time before spirit entered the equation, before the soul entered consciousness. The same ones who still possess this archaic and destructive mode of being now sit in places of power through their soul-less actions but the winds are constantly in motion, many are evolving beyond and there will soon be a new era where spirit overtakes ego and all will be well, peace within and on earth. For real.


snake321 wrote:
Look, why does this society seem to VALUE negative characteristics in people, such as dishonesty, selfishness, egoism, apathy, stupidity, group think, while SCORNING people who speak of positive values such as honesty, loyalty, selflessness, integrity, respect, determination, drive, intelligence, and individuality? Don't make it an AS/NT thing because it ISN'T. Why do so many people, including many but not all of the people here, so strongly believe that a cohesive and tolerant, functioning society is evil, or that dysfunction is "normal" and should be valued? I want an honest answer. Don't say "because ignorance feels good", a crack head is still a crack head no matter how the crack makes him feel.


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28 Dec 2007, 8:42 am

snake321 wrote:
Look, why does this society seem to VALUE negative characteristics in people, such as dishonesty, selfishness, egoism, apathy, stupidity, group think, while SCORNING people who speak of positive values such as honesty, loyalty, selflessness, integrity, respect, determination, drive, intelligence, and individuality? Don't make it an AS/NT thing because it ISN'T. Why do so many people, including many but not all of the people here, so strongly believe that a cohesive and tolerant, functioning society is evil, or that dysfunction is "normal" and should be valued? I want an honest answer. Don't say "because ignorance feels good", a crack head is still a crack head no matter how the crack makes him feel.

"To choose this or that is to affirm at the same time the value of what we choose, because we can never choose evil. We always choose the good, and nothing can be good for us without being good for all."-Jean-Paul Sartre

By the very virtue of people valuing the negative, they assert it as the positive. The crack head, because he feels good, and because he chooses crack, affirms that crack is correct and that the "virtues" that lead him to crack are the ways that people should think.



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28 Dec 2007, 12:28 pm

But in the long run, the crack head is miserable because of his addiction.



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28 Dec 2007, 12:30 pm

Perhaps this says something? Short term comfort is often long term self destruction. ignorance is like crack, people like it because it feels good at first, but in the end they always pay for their addiction.



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28 Dec 2007, 12:56 pm

Deus_ex_machina wrote:
Cyanide wrote:
That's one of the many mysteries of life, but my guess is rebellion from the old ways.


The "old ways" valued homophobia and racism, don't tell me you've forgotten this?

I think that people have to have an outlet, for reasons that change from person to person people just need to explode at somebody. Unless they have some other outlet like art, meditation or some other way to deal with it.


Even then, some artists are ignorant, many of these loons in this new age movement are just as bad as fundies really, the "liberalist extreme", which is nothing more really than self delusions that they adhere to in order to fit into a group. This is why I don't associate with any groups, because no group is perfect, and neither am i or anyone else, but I am conscious enough to learn from the mistakes and errors of others..... People accept flawed ideologies to live their life by without giving it any critical thought, in order to fit in because they are scared of individuality. That is where a lot of the problem lies.



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28 Dec 2007, 12:59 pm

Well that and as someone else pointed out, laziness/selfishness. People always wanna take the easy road...... A famous Irish song went "you take the high road, and I'll take the low road, and I'll get there beforrrrre ya". That's about where I'm standing, if it's too easy it's probably not very good.



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28 Dec 2007, 1:30 pm

NT collective of religion( such as Christianity) might give you incite on NTs ideals. It is strange though Christians don't really see Jesus as a role modal. They do and say thing knowing that Jesus would not give his blessing.