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Is it creepy for older guys to prefer younger women?
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No 58%  58%  [ 23 ]
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03 Jan 2014, 4:41 pm

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Claiming that attraction to teenagers is based in biology is... self-serving, at best.


Well, is the basis for attraction other than biological? I mean, you are hoping (or at least fantasizing) to do biological things, like procreating.

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That is why scriptures call him the Son of Man! Why do you think thousands of Israel's men and women have coupled, generation after generation? To rub their backsides and titillate their groins? No. All those thousands and thousands of kisses were needed to produce the Messiah.


If any one of your ancestors had failed in his or her mission to procreate, then you wouldn't be here today.

And, every act of procreation, on the part of every single one of your ancestors, involved titillating the groin.



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03 Jan 2014, 4:51 pm

aghogday wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
A depiction of David and Abishag

http://www.aeragon.com/00/itz/06/David_Abishag_01.jpg

In something close to the Feminist-endorsed 69 position.


Well..at least she does look well over 18 in that picture...

Of course that too.. is dependent on culture..when a female turns adult and all of that...


She also appears to be quite well fed. Which, in the 19th century, would have been considered a sign of wealth and hence attractiveness.

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The witch that came (the withered hag)
To wash the steps with pail and rag
Was once the beauty Abishag...



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03 Jan 2014, 6:43 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
aghogday wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
A depiction of David and Abishag

http://www.aeragon.com/00/itz/06/David_Abishag_01.jpg

In something close to the Feminist-endorsed 69 position.


Well..at least she does look well over 18 in that picture...

Of course that too.. is dependent on culture..when a female turns adult and all of that...


She also appears to be quite well fed. Which, in the 19th century, would have been considered a sign of wealth and hence attractiveness.

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The witch that came (the withered hag)
To wash the steps with pail and rag
Was once the beauty Abishag...


Yes..excellent point...i like voluptuous by the way..

My wife fits the ideal for women in our culture..

Everlasting youth...not an ounce of fat anywhere but...

Butt..

That's where it's at for having children..fertility..and all of that.....

And the picture you provided of King David's attempted muse..certainly fully illustrated 'that'..

Butt...

Dead pan humor's great ain't it..not everyone gets it..huh..;)
i like it..and can appreciate your type of humor...

Anyway.. back to so called 'debate' i guess...


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03 Jan 2014, 6:52 pm

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03 Jan 2014, 7:10 pm

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i think i need to clarify my intent here as it has become distorted.
this is a very sensitive topic for me as i have had too much experience with sexual abuse. my opinion here is that "lusting after the young chicks" can imply an attitude and environment that is accepting .and condoning to many men/women with a predatory nature who may very well read such things as a justification of the abuse and suffering they inflict on young women/men. i believe that perpetuating this in a chest beating fashion or to suggest this is inherently masculine can have severe and life long devastating impacts on many people's well being.
and that recognizing that sexual abuse and exploitation are far to common in our society. this glorification of the young woman as a prize to be claimed, lusted after and desired needs to be addressed and considered not waved recklessly
i have said my piece please do not quote me as i have nothing further to add


To be direct with you..it will be helpful in the future..if you WILL ACTUALLY quote who you are responding to...

This IS a forum for people with Asperger's syndrome..

And it does help if some of us know for sure who is talking TO US....

BUT THAT IS UP TO YOU..FRIEND..just a suggestion...

But if you do not make it clear..in the the future..i will tell you this..I WILL DEFEND MYSELF DIRECTLY TO YOU..whether you like it or not..if there is any inkLing that my integrity is being unfairly compromised....


no as your statements are facile and imbecilic. get the irony?
no i dont suppose you do. defend a view point as opposed to discussing it reveals you have no real interest in stating anything new or vaguely interesting


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03 Jan 2014, 7:48 pm

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Well.. here is a full documentary on the science of lust and love..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCK6zoiafio



Well, that was an interesting documentary.

I suppose that the Feminist counterargument is still: "You guys are just a bunch of perverts who are looking for excuses to justify your horniness!"



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03 Jan 2014, 7:51 pm

salamandaqwerty wrote:
aghogday wrote:
But if you do not make it clear..in the the future..i will tell you this..I WILL DEFEND MYSELF DIRECTLY TO YOU..whether you like it or not..if there is any inkLing that my integrity is being unfairly compromised....


no as your statements are facile and imbecilic. get the irony?
no i dont suppose you do. defend a view point as opposed to discussing it reveals you have no real interest in stating anything new or vaguely interesting


Well, it is your integrity that is being compromised. That is abundantly clear--no need to guess. Fire away.



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03 Jan 2014, 8:34 pm

aghogday wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
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ArrantPariah wrote:
A depiction of David and Abishag

http://www.aeragon.com/00/itz/06/David_Abishag_01.jpg

In something close to the Feminist-endorsed 69 position.


Well..at least she does look well over 18 in that picture...

Of course that too.. is dependent on culture..when a female turns adult and all of that...


She also appears to be quite well fed. Which, in the 19th century, would have been considered a sign of wealth and hence attractiveness.


Yes..excellent point...i like voluptuous by the way..

Butt..

That's where it's at for having children..fertility..and all of that.....

And the picture you provided of King David's attempted muse..certainly fully illustrated 'that'..

Butt...


I looked up the painter, Pedro Américo de Figueiredo e Melo. He was Brazilian. So, yeah, it is only natural that his Abishag would have the phat bundas.

No cellulite, though: those are youthful bundas.



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03 Jan 2014, 8:37 pm

Do your bundas have cellulite AP?


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03 Jan 2014, 9:28 pm

Only the forces of +r011ery are keeping this thread afloat..... :roll: :roll: :roll:


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03 Jan 2014, 9:31 pm

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Someone had asked a question about taking a girls virginity. I ever have but I have had several opportunities. I was kind of afraid of causing pain and so in the one time I didn't chicken out or get interrupted I gave her oral sex instead. Not sure if that counts.


I would only do it if I felt that I loved the woman, but that comes from me being a woman and knowing what it was like for me. if I was single, I could have sex with a woman I don't love, but not if she was a virgin.

Oh and AP, I've decided not show you any artwork because I don't want you making silly comments about something that I admire and feel an emotional attachment to. Thinking about it, you are so far from my wavelength on sex, discussing topics relating to it with you is similarly wasteful to discussing art with you.

So, let's go our merry ways?


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03 Jan 2014, 9:36 pm

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Do your bundas have cellulite AP?


Men usually don't even know they have a butt, unless it's itching.

Anyway, time for another song?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liNnCKPeEv0[/youtube]



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03 Jan 2014, 9:36 pm

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Only the forces of +r011ery are keeping this thread afloat..... :roll: :roll: :roll:


Look who shows up, just as soon as I'm answering a question about my butt. A triple eye-roll, no less.



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03 Jan 2014, 9:41 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
Do your bundas have cellulite AP?


Men usually don't even know they have a butt, unless it's itching.

Anyway, time for another song?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liNnCKPeEv0[/youtube]


That Billy Bragg song is pretty far away from the view of sexuality you put across in your posts, imho.

And you also missed quite a lot of the nuances in the Song of Solomon. Oh well.


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03 Jan 2014, 9:50 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
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Only the forces of +r011ery are keeping this thread afloat..... :roll: :roll: :roll:


Look who shows up, just as soon as I'm answering a question about my butt. A triple eye-roll, no less.

My apologies AP,I didn't mean to cause trouble between you and your fiancé,but I guess jealousy rears it's ugly head.


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03 Jan 2014, 9:50 pm

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Oh and AP, I've decided not show you any artwork because I don't want you making silly comments about something that I admire and feel an emotional attachment to.


Are there any examples that meet your criteria, but to which you do not feel an emotional attachment?

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Thinking about it, you are so far from my wavelength on sex, discussing topics relating to it with you is similarly wasteful to discussing art with you.


Well, I wasn't really expecting that you and I were going to hook up.

I have this soundtrack that I'll just have to save for Raptor, then..

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRi7CE0tJA0[/youtube]

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So, lets go our merry ways?


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hopRHodnouY[/youtube]