As a mom, I found the passage in 1 Samuel upsetting. (It even bothered me when I was a kid!) Hannah is barren but really wants a child. In chapter 1:11, “she made a vow, saying, “Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life.”
God blesses her with a son and as soon as he is weaned: “she took the boy with her, young as he was, along with a three-year-old bull, an ephah of flour and a skin of wine, and brought him to the house of the Lord at Shiloh. 25 When the bull had been sacrificed, they brought the boy to Eli, 26 and she said to him, “Pardon me, my lord. As surely as you live, I am the woman who stood here beside you praying to the Lord. 27 I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him. 28 So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord.” And he worshiped the Lord there (1:24-28). In chapter 2, it’s clear that she only sees him once a year. “Each year his mother made him a little robe and took it to him when she went up with her husband to offer the annual sacrifice. 20 Eli would bless Elkanah [the father] and his wife, saying, “May the Lord give you children by this woman to take the place of the one she prayed for and gave to the Lord.” Then they would go home. 21 And the Lord was gracious to Hannah; she gave birth to three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile, the boy Samuel grew up in the presence of the Lord” (2:19-21).
I find the idea of this really heartbreaking for the parents and son. I can imagine the love and care that went into making the “little robe” even though it probably is just a story. Attachment is crucial for healthy child development. Also, another child won’t take the place of one you love and miss. At least no babies die, though, so it’s better than a lot of Bible stories involving babies/children but still.
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“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince