Page 10 of 12 [ 185 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1 ... 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12  Next

thomas81
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 May 2012
Age: 45
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,147
Location: County Down, Northern Ireland

15 Mar 2013, 5:39 pm

Fnord wrote:
Is it jealousy or self-pity that drives people to attack the wealthy and systems that allow and encourage people to become wealthy?

I think it's both...


Can it not be genuine anger?

How is it right that some people can graft and work hard all their lives for a pittance while some freeloaders like Paris Hilton and the Kardashian sisters get to coast on easy street their whole lives?


_________________
Being 'normal' is over rated.

My deviant art profile


Fnord
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 May 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 60,952
Location:      

15 Mar 2013, 6:22 pm

thomas81 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Is it jealousy or self-pity that drives people to attack the wealthy and systems that allow and encourage people to become wealthy? I think it's both...
Can it not be genuine anger?

Of course; but feeling anger toward someone else for their success is jealousy.

thomas81 wrote:
How is it right that some people can graft and work hard all their lives for a pittance while some freeloaders like Paris Hilton and the Kardashian sisters get to coast on easy street their whole lives?

The Hilton family gained their wealth through their hotel chain, and Paris Hilton was born into a wealthy family. There is nothing wrong with that.

As for the Kardashians, there is This Wikipedia Article, an excerpt of which appears below.

Quote:
Defense attorney Robert Kardashian and Kris Houghton (now Jenner) married in 1978 and had four children together, daughters Kourtney (born 1979), Kim (born 1980), Khloé (born 1984) and son Rob (born 1987). The couple divorced in 1990. In 1994, Robert entered the media spotlight when he defended O.J. Simpson for the murders of Nicole Brown Simpson and Ronald Goldman during a lengthy trial. Kris married former Olympic champion Bruce Jenner in 1991. Bruce and Kris had two daughters together, Kendall (born 1995) and Kylie (born 1997). Robert died in 2003 eight weeks after being diagnosed with esophageal cancer. In 2004, Kim became a personal stylist to recording artist Brandy Norwood; she eventually developed into a full-time stylist, and was a personal shopper and stylist to actress Lindsay Lohan. Khloé, Kim and Kourtney further ventured into fashion, opening a high fashion boutique D-A-S-H in Calabasas, California. Throughout Kim's early career, she involved herself in some high-profile relationships including Norwood's brother rapper Ray J and later, singer Nick Lachey. In 2006, Kourtney starred in her first reality television series, Filthy Rich: Cattle Drive.

So, the Kardashians have not exactly been "Freeloading"; they seem to have put for at least some effort to get where they are today, and there is nothing wrong with that, either.

Of course, it helped both of these families that there was a first generation that managed to acquire wealth on its own.

I think you're mis-using the word "graft" here. It means "the unscrupulous use of a politician's authority for personal gain"; is this what you meant?

If you work hard at a job that requires no skills, then you are likely to be paid minimum wages. If your job requires specialized skills, or skills that require four years of college or law school to learn, then you will be paid a lot more; and if you've invented or you own something that everybody can't seem to live without, then you deserve to receive whatever your customers are willing to pay.

Stop obsessing about what other people have, and develop the skills it takes to get what you want instead.


_________________
The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.


ruveyn
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Sep 2008
Age: 89
Gender: Male
Posts: 31,502
Location: New Jersey

15 Mar 2013, 6:25 pm

Fnord wrote:

Stop obsessing about what other people have, and develop the skills it takes to get what you want instead.


I think your interlocutor will resent anyone getting seconds until everyone gets firsts. Some people are like that.

They do not comprehend that life is unfair and sh*t happens.

ruveyn



Fnord
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 May 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 60,952
Location:      

15 Mar 2013, 6:28 pm

ruveyn wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Stop obsessing about what other people have, and develop the skills it takes to get what you want instead.
I think your interlocutor will resent anyone getting seconds until everyone gets firsts. Some people are like that. They do not comprehend that life is unfair and sh*t happens.

Still, it is a truism that needs to be repeated, and repeated often.


_________________
The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.


Kraichgauer
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Apr 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 49,751
Location: Spokane area, Washington state.

15 Mar 2013, 6:47 pm

I don't feel envy for what the rich have, or anger because I lack it. Rather, I feel anger when I see those who control the engines of capitalism move industries overseas in order to save what is the equivalent a a few dollars for them, thereby placing the hoarding of a little money over a sense of country and the well being of their fellow Americans. I feel anger when the rich are given huge tax breaks when they hardly need it, causing social services those in need depend on to be cut. And I feel anger when the rich pour millions of dollars into campaigns that seek to disenfranchise fellow Americans who are the most vulnerable. So no, it's no always about being covetous.

-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer



cubedemon6073
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Nov 2008
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,960

15 Mar 2013, 6:59 pm

ruveyn wrote:
Fnord wrote:

Stop obsessing about what other people have, and develop the skills it takes to get what you want instead.


I think your interlocutor will resent anyone getting seconds until everyone gets firsts. Some people are like that.

They do not comprehend that life is unfair and sh*t happens.

ruveyn


ointment



ruveyn
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Sep 2008
Age: 89
Gender: Male
Posts: 31,502
Location: New Jersey

15 Mar 2013, 8:48 pm

cubedemon6073 wrote:
ruveyn wrote:
Fnord wrote:

Stop obsessing about what other people have, and develop the skills it takes to get what you want instead.


I think your interlocutor will resent anyone getting seconds until everyone gets firsts. Some people are like that.

They do not comprehend that life is unfair and sh*t happens.

ruveyn


ointment


Clarify please?



cubedemon6073
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Nov 2008
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,960

16 Mar 2013, 9:24 am

Quote:
Clarify please?

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/fly- ... tment.html

It is a running gag me and someone has. I couldn't resist. Laughing What you said reminded me of it and I was laughing my butt off.


Seriously, why do both you and Fnord keep focusing on our emotional state? Why does it matter to you if any of us obsess over what other people have or not? What do the properties of life have to do with knowing what one is supposed to do to succeed in America whatsoever. For me, all of this is irrelevant.

Why does my attitude keep getting focused more then the actual ability to do something? Why is my attitude focused on so much by American society?

What exactly is the extent of control one has over his circumstances? It is treated as though that one's attitude is the building blocks of time and space itself, why is this? What does my attitude have to do with my ability and the knowledge of how to do something.

Will you read what I have written here. http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt206352.html

For me, it doesn't matter what my disposition is or what I believe or not. For me, it is irrelevant whether I believe I can or can't do x. It matters if I can truthfully do x or not. There is an objective reality outside of ourselves. If I believe I can't do x then either I lack a prerequisite skill, I'm seeing it wrong, or it is something else altogether. Instead of attempting to help investigate or at least saying they do not know they focus on my attitude and positive affirmations. You and Fnord do the same thing.

Why? What is the underlying reasoning? If I am wrong about how society works and anything else I just want to know where I am wrong and why and what the correct way is and why?

I do not oppose what people have nor am I envious by the way. I don't even know how you Rueven and Fnord come to this logic. My issue with America and the culture is the underlying beliefs that do not have any basis in reasoning I can grasp.

Here is another thing I do not grasp either. Why is it considered taboo to blame society whatsoever for any reason? What is the basis for this? This implies to me that the standards that the Americans today have are never wrong? I do not agree with this whatsoever. This is a fallacy of the appeal to the masses. The majority can be wrong about something.

For whatever reason most people including you two keeps focusing on the tenets. Why?

In detail and specifics what are the inherent requirements to making it in America whatsoever?

The thing is Ruven and Fnord, I do not understand what you two are trying to convey and what people are trying to convey with attitude. Would you two clarify further if you two do not mind?



marshall
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 10,752
Location: Turkey

16 Mar 2013, 10:57 am

I notice the ad hominem "you're just jealous" is something that comes out when people are too block headed and/or intellectually dishonest to argue with reason.



xenon13
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Dec 2008
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,638

16 Mar 2013, 11:02 am

marshall wrote:
I notice the ad hominem "you're just jealous" is something that comes out when people are too block headed and/or intellectually dishonest to argue with reason.



Money is power, power is a zero sum game, if most of the population stagnates whilst say 5% make out like bandits and double and triple their wealth and income, they also capture power, and that power is taken from the rest of us, they may say that the people who stagnate still live well, but they lose ground in the power department and that is not a question of jealousy, this is a question of defending what one has... for those who take more power get to rewrite the rules further to permit them to accumulate even more power at the expense of everyone else, a process that will cause a declining standard of living for the rest of us and perhaps, if the tendency continues, complete enslavement. To prevent that, anything is justified. It's survival, not jealousy.



marshall
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 10,752
Location: Turkey

16 Mar 2013, 11:07 am

I think some people do not understand the difference between reason and rationalization. The former is about looking for truth and finding solutions. The latter is about trying to manipulate people into thinking a certain way.



cubedemon6073
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Nov 2008
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,960

16 Mar 2013, 11:25 am

marshall wrote:
I think some people do not understand the difference between reason and rationalization. The former is about looking for truth and finding solutions. The latter is about trying to manipulate people into thinking a certain way.


Did you get my pm?

I think it is more likely a personality type. Some personality types think in what do I have to deal in now and what is now? Others deal in possibilities and what may be in the future.

http://www.personalitypathways.com/type_inventory.html



Last edited by cubedemon6073 on 16 Mar 2013, 11:30 am, edited 2 times in total.

Fnord
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 May 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 60,952
Location:      

16 Mar 2013, 11:25 am

marshall wrote:
I notice the ad hominem "you're just jealous" is something that comes out when people are too block headed and/or intellectually dishonest to argue with reason.

As I've said, "If anyone can point to a current political and economic system that has completely eliminated poverty, yet still allows for its citizens to become wealthy without exploiting others, I'd like to know about it." What could be more reasonable than that?

Feeling anger toward someone just because they have earned something that you didn't earn for yourself is jealousy, plain and simple. If that is not jealousy, then what else could it be?

I've been poor and homeless, and during that time, I also blamed others for my poverty and felt anger toward them for their wealth. Then I stopped whining, grew up, enlisted in the Navy, and made something of myself. So, I know what I'm talking about.

No one gains respect by pointing fingers and crying "Unfair!" when someone else earns success; admiration is not the reward for those who accuse ambitious, determined, and hard-working people of doing nothing to earn their wealth; and nobody will ever be considered anything but a loser for never having tried to be a success.


_________________
The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.


cubedemon6073
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Nov 2008
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,960

16 Mar 2013, 11:44 am

Quote:
As I've said, "If anyone can point to a current political and economic system that has completely eliminated poverty, yet still allows for its citizens to become wealthy without exploiting others, I'd like to know about it." What could be more reasonable than that?


There will be none because the problem isn't political or economic. The problem is human nature. The solution is that others would have to decide to help those who need it. The solution is within each of us and can't come from outside.

Quote:
Feeling anger toward someone just because they have earned something that you didn't earn for yourself is jealousy, plain and simple. If that is not jealousy, then what else could it be?

I've been poor and homeless, and during that time, I also blamed others for my poverty and felt anger toward them for their wealth. Then I stopped whining, grew up, enlisted in the Navy, and made something of myself. So, I know what I'm talking about.

No one gains respect by pointing fingers and crying "Unfair!" when someone else earns success; admiration is not the reward for those who accuse ambitious, determined, and hard-working people of doing nothing to earn their wealth; and nobody will ever be considered anything but a loser for never having tried to be a success.


All you are stating is what. This has been said many times by others as well. What I lack is the underlying rationale and essence to these beliefs. Why is it ignoble to blame others or any other external entities no matter what situation they're in? What about those in the concentration camps? Why would those in the concentration camps be wrong for blaming the Nazis for what they did to them? I do not follow your thought process whatsoever?

How do you derive that any of us is jealous whatsoever of anyone's success? How do you derive this conclusion? All I want to know is the reasoning behind your belief of this extreme internal locus that you have. Why is any belief whatsoever in external locus of control fallacious?

There is a quote that says that my attitude is more important than the facts. How is this so? How is this derived? What is Charles charles swindoll's reasoning behind this? Why is confidence required for success in America? Why do I have to believe in myself in order to have success? Why does my attitude matter so much in American society?



marshall
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 10,752
Location: Turkey

16 Mar 2013, 11:44 am

visagrunt wrote:
marshall wrote:
You are correct that there will always be competition. Competition itself isn't the problem IMO. The problem is self-reinforcing stratification processes that cause wealth and power to concentrate in the hands of fewer and fewer people over time. The economy of scale favors this. Cost is continually driven down as competing companies look for ways to produce more while employing and paying less. This is all fine and well when the economy is in a growth stage such that infrastructure, technology, and the amount of goods and services in the market is increasing.


But there is no economy in which there is not some redistribution of wealth. The trick for policy makers is to find the balance between reducing income inequality, without disincentivizing investment and production.


The problem is a cultural one. Americans will never see "redistribution" as a necessary check to prevent social and economic crisis in a system with a systemic flaw. They can't ever see the forest for the trees. When Americans hear the word "redistribution" they think in terms of transfer payments only, i.e. "welfare checks". In American thinking "redistribution" is by definition "unearned income". A certain segment of the population just can't wrap their heads around anything beyond that notion.

They don't think in terms of research investment or infrastructure spending which both puts more money in people's pockets and improves standard of living through the needed work that gets done. The problem is wealthy investors see no point in giving their money to repair a crumbling bridge. It's not seen as worth fixing until the bridge falls into the water killing 50 people and inconveniencing the shipment of their goods. They'd rather give their money to a museum or theater or some charitable foundation they can put their name on. There's nothing wrong "redistribution" going to arts or culture, but the wealthy class misses less glamorous things that actually have to be done to keep society running smoothly, which includes both infrastructure development and making sure there's enough employment and income to keep people reasonably happy and not living on the streets stealing from each other and killing each other to survive.

Quote:
Quote:
The problems occur when we hit a stage where growth begins to level off because the economy has matured and is approaching the limit of maximum efficiency on existing goods without enough new goods entering the market. Credit dries up when investors stop seeing the potential for positive returns on investment and then boom, unemployment happens. Central banks try to keep this from happening by expanding the monetary base and encouraging borrowing but it always comes to a point where the lenders lose faith and start waiting for money to flow back to themselves before lending out more, even with interest rates as low as they can possibly go.


Fuelling economic growth with credit is not, in and of itself, a bad thing. What is bad is when it is fuelled with unsustainable debt. Again, policy makers need to look for the moderated approach.

Well, it seems like we've lost the middle ground possibility. With the tax and income distribution the way it is here in the US it's no longer possible to fuel economic growth without also fueling debt growth. A lot of our cities are starting to look like the third world.



marshall
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 10,752
Location: Turkey

16 Mar 2013, 11:57 am

Fnord wrote:
marshall wrote:
I notice the ad hominem "you're just jealous" is something that comes out when people are too block headed and/or intellectually dishonest to argue with reason.

As I've said, "If anyone can point to a current political and economic system that has completely eliminated poverty, yet still allows for its citizens to become wealthy without exploiting others, I'd like to know about it." What could be more reasonable than that?

Feeling anger toward someone just because they have earned something that you didn't earn for yourself is jealousy, plain and simple. If that is not jealousy, then what else could it be?

Again, this is like arguing with a toaster oven. You just don't f***ing get it.

Quote:
I've been poor and homeless, and during that time, I also blamed others for my poverty and felt anger toward them for their wealth. Then I stopped whining, grew up, enlisted in the Navy, and made something of myself. So, I know what I'm talking about.

And you wouldn't have been able to enlist in the Navy without government paying for that. Where do you think that money comes from? Right now our military is going to get hit with cuts leaving less for future people like you. All because certain people I am supposedly jealous of refuse to pay a dime more in taxes. We are now also less safe from being attacked and it's not a good time to be unprepared if you're following current world events.

Quote:
No one gains respect by pointing fingers and crying "Unfair!" when someone else earns success; admiration is not the reward for those who accuse ambitious, determined, and hard-working people of doing nothing to earn their wealth; and nobody will ever be considered anything but a loser for never having tried to be a success.

This is not just about "unfair". It's about our survival as a nation. Seriously, get over yourself.