Is it creepy for older men to prefer younger women?

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Is it creepy for older guys to prefer younger women?
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Yes 13%  13%  [ 5 ]
No 58%  58%  [ 23 ]
Depends 30%  30%  [ 12 ]
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03 Jan 2014, 9:56 pm

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That Billy Bragg song is pretty far away from the view of sexuality you put across in your posts, imho.


We're not that far off. He and I both enjoy a good bang.

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And you also missed quite a lot of the nuances in the Song of Solomon. Oh well.


I didn't copy and paste the whole thing--just some parts that I thought relevant to the present discussion.



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03 Jan 2014, 9:58 pm

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Only the forces of +r011ery are keeping this thread afloat..... :roll: :roll: :roll:


Look who shows up, just as soon as I'm answering a question about my butt. A triple eye-roll, no less.

My apologies AP,I didn't mean to cause trouble between you and your fiancé,but I guess jealousy rears it's ugly head.


I'm gonna have some 'splaining to do tonight....



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03 Jan 2014, 10:01 pm

^^You could try twerking,like Miley.That will bring a man around.


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03 Jan 2014, 10:04 pm

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^^You could try twerking,like Miley.That will bring a man around.


Well, I probably do have more bundas than she does. Pedro's Abishag puts us both to shame.



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03 Jan 2014, 10:06 pm

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That Billy Bragg song is pretty far away from the view of sexuality you put across in your posts, imho.


We're not that far off. He and I both enjoy a good bang.


I enjoy a good bang and I'm still in a different solar system to you in terms of sex.


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03 Jan 2014, 10:11 pm

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i think i need to clarify my intent here as it has become distorted.
this is a very sensitive topic for me as i have had too much experience with sexual abuse. my opinion here is that "lusting after the young chicks" can imply an attitude and environment that is accepting .and condoning to many men/women with a predatory nature who may very well read such things as a justification of the abuse and suffering they inflict on young women/men. i believe that perpetuating this in a chest beating fashion or to suggest this is inherently masculine can have severe and life long devastating impacts on many people's well being.
and that recognizing that sexual abuse and exploitation are far to common in our society. this glorification of the young woman as a prize to be claimed, lusted after and desired needs to be addressed and considered not waved recklessly
i have said my piece please do not quote me as i have nothing further to add


To be direct with you..it will be helpful in the future..if you WILL ACTUALLY quote who you are responding to...

This IS a forum for people with Asperger's syndrome..

And it does help if some of us know for sure who is talking TO US....

BUT THAT IS UP TO YOU..FRIEND..just a suggestion...

But if you do not make it clear..in the the future..i will tell you this..I WILL DEFEND MYSELF DIRECTLY TO YOU..whether you like it or not..if there is any inkLing that my integrity is being unfairly compromised....


no as your statements are facile and imbecilic. get the irony?
no i dont suppose you do. defend a view point as opposed to discussing it reveals you have no real interest in stating anything new or vaguely interesting


Well friend...considering that personal attacks are at the lowest level of intellectual discourse...

I suppose this says it all...

Quite honestly... i have no idea what you are talking about here..i've documented evidence here for my point of view..friend...

But anyway..carry on as you will...chap....


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03 Jan 2014, 10:15 pm

Here is a sweet painting by Thomas Hart Benton.They both look tired but happy.Maybe a good combo of yin and yang.They seem like equals.
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04 Jan 2014, 8:10 am

Reminds me of this one

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I hadn't thought of it as a Feminist painting. Maybe it would be more Feminist if she were the one holding the trident.



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04 Jan 2014, 8:16 am

puddingmouse wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
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That Billy Bragg song is pretty far away from the view of sexuality you put across in your posts, imho.


We're not that far off. He and I both enjoy a good bang.


I enjoy a good bang and I'm still in a different solar system to you in terms of sex.


Well, I do still have my Raptor. :wink:



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04 Jan 2014, 8:37 am

A random Google search for Feminist art, and excluding the ones that include any bare bossoms, buttocks and/or genitalia

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I can see where it might not appeal a whole lot to the gents. We definitely need some boobies, at the very least.

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Just flash us a boob, and you're in. :wink:



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04 Jan 2014, 9:06 am

Well..it's kinda funny how the 'opposite sexes' work when it comes to visual images of the opposite..sex...

I was a nerd and skinny kid and all of that in middle school..and some of the females were actually more cruel to me in their comments about my appearance calling me skank and all of that..when the last dam thing i cared about at 12 years old..was how dam attractive i was to the opposite sex..i just wanted to learn and play...

And then later on..when i started working out and all of that really hard to be a man..as all nerds dream to do ..i think...

The girls finally started looking just a little...bit whenever i could go somewhere without my Napoleon Dynamite..huge big 4 eye glasses..

well..I was almost blind.. but without those dam glasses..i finally got some looks from girls..oh my goodness..how liberating that was finally to be acknowledged by the opposite sex...

Well..i know what turns on girls..there is no doubt in my mind about that...

And yes my greatest asset was my ass..and yes..there is even research that says that higher functioning autistic males have a slightly shapelier ass..

So i did a test..

Yes..i was totally disabled and a physical wreck for over 5 years..but i got my man thing back..in overdrive now...

But i also got my shapely ass back again too...

So i showed a little bit of that ass..to the general public..in a tastefully done..underwear photo..at the local poets pubs..that you can find all over the internet..as writing poetry is a rage these days..on blogs and all of that...

And well..while some females responded..and no males..as we know all about homophobia..and all of that in our patriarchal culture and all of that..huh..well at least i do for sure..as most guys are afraid..of sensual looking other dudes..huh..yeah that's true...

And yeah..this time..with showing a little bit of my butt..instead of frontal underwear and muscle shots and all of that..

i finally got the awesome comments from the ladies...

so i think my theory about the butt thing..and women..is fairly true..

Cause maybe it's the motion of the ocean ..and not the tool so much necessarily ..that gets 'her' there..

I don't want to be to obvious here ya know..and not offend anyone's...'sensibilities'..but like they told me in my anthropology classes the best way to learn about human nature...

Is to be a participant observer...

My wife and i also participated in a porn site..that was really cool to be a participant observer there too...;)

She'd kill me if she knew i let that one out..but with 7 million words on the internet..i pretty much blend in everywhere like a Ninja anyway...hehe...;)

But it's all for science..seriously it is all for science..i am a lifelong student of human nature..with my three degrees in social sciences interdisciplinary..anthropology..and health science...

So i guess this is kinda an act of contrition.. huh..;)

But yes..i am professionally diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder now..after initially being diagnosed with PDDNOS..

But like Temple Grandhin says..Autistic folks are like Anthropologists on Mars anyway.. kind of inherently ...

So i imagine..and from my experience in the actual professional field in College..there are lots of archaeologists and anthropologists out there..at least on the broader autism phenotype...

I love this internet..site..so many diverse minds..

An Anthropologist's dream..

And NO..i am not the only actual schooled anthropologist here either...

But i ain't naming any names...

The sexual nature of human beings..is one of my favorite parts of Anthropology..

And this site is truly great to study that....

And i love diverse minds..there is no one here..that i do not come away from without learning something about human nature..even with all the silly attempts at personal attacks and all of that..it is predictable as people who are hurt in their life..will strike back at anything..at all if given an opportunity...

And faceless and nameless avatars..are a perfect opportunity for that...

Hate though is a vicious cycle..the hardest thing..for a person to deal with who is striking out..is when another person..is not 'affected' by it..

That is the kind of person i am...never affected by personal attacks..so this is the perfect environment for me to learn more and more about human nature....:)


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04 Jan 2014, 10:32 am

If we look at some of these ancient figurines

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It would appear that men have always enjoyed looking at and drawn inspiration from the female form.

The fellow who made the image at top was definitely an ass man. Some of the artists clearly liked big boobies.

Back then, if people walked around naked, there would have been much less need for porn (or for nude paintings and statues in museums) than there is today. But, they still had it. Of course, if there was an ice age, and people did wear clothes, then that shoots my theory. My theory then becomes that they needed these figurines as an outlet, because the women were all covered up.



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04 Jan 2014, 11:20 am

How about the pretty lady without mercy?Looks like he's down for the count.
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04 Jan 2014, 11:41 am

^ Yeah, that's definitely one for the Feminist gallery.

The form suggested by her arms, and the narrow opening between her hands, objectifying a vagina.

Clearly, the message here is: "You ain't gettin' any, Buster!"



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04 Jan 2014, 11:56 am

This one is nice,they both are equally passionate.
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04 Jan 2014, 12:01 pm

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This one is nice,they both are equally passionate.
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If the woman showed more boob, then the painting might be eligible for the Patriarchs' gallery.

Very nice ass, though.